Posted by Dr. Bob on December 15, 2003, at 8:36:39
In reply to Re: grumbling and obligatory thinking » Dr. Bob, posted by crushedout on December 14, 2003, at 18:33:26
> > > he attacked dinah directly, accusing her of "grumbling and obligatory thinking," whatever that means.
>
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20031123/msgs/284894.htmlYes, there he says:
> Your grumbling and obligatory thinking cloud your vision from seeing this truth about yourself...
I think I see what you mean about the phrase you quoted, and maybe it was a mistake to let it go, but FWIW, he did qualify what he said:
> your story sounds much like this... This is my experienced guess...
And also I'm not sure the gist of it was really an "attack", since the "truth" he was referring to was:
> You will be whole when you know you are "enough" to handle tomorrow better than you handled yesterday... What you are reluctant to accept is that you've always been "enough"...
Which I think was pretty supportive...
Bob
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