Posted by NikkiT2 on April 9, 2003, at 8:17:43
In reply to (((((((((((((((Lou))))))))))))))))) » Lou Pilder, posted by OddipusRex on April 9, 2003, at 5:22:22
This is only from my own personal perspective, so I am not talking for everyone here.. but I think others might share my view.
When you ask fro clarification, you very rarely just post one simple post asking for this. You post a whole list of posts, often asking the same question but in different words. This makes me feel very pressured, and makes me very anxious, which in turn makes me angry. I don't deal very well with pressure at all.
Maybe if you could simplify your requests, into one post, that clearly states which part of a post you wish to be clarified, and just ask "did you mean xxx, as my understanding of it is yyy"Its when you post 4 or 5 replies, asking for one part of apost to be clarified, that my mind just gives in. I also find them very hard to follow, and end up not knowing what it is you're asking.
I think it is also important to remember that we *all* have problems of some kind here, else we wouldn't be posting here.
Your mind obviously works in complex ways, but would it be possible to try and simplify your posts please.. would hopefully cause less problems, and make life easier for everyone.
Nikki
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