Posted by Phil on September 17, 2002, at 20:13:25
In reply to Re: you're missing the point entirely » Dr. Bob, posted by wendy b. on September 17, 2002, at 18:19:24
Please read trouble's posts just on this thread. Please read the others about waking up at 7 years old w/ a penis in her mouth. Look at her response to judy, judy was already shocked.
Try these:
http://www.dr.bob.org/babble/psycho/20020829/msgs/1076.htmlhttp://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20020908/msgs/30309.html
I'm nasty? If Robin was a new poster, I guess you would have supported her?
Oh, she's been around the boards and has had problems so we support her posting this?So I'm the bad guy because what I was telling her was to get over was the anger she was obviously eaten up with. Anyone in that short of time posting a lot of angry stuff needs someone not to say, Hi, glad to see you." Her posts were incredible angry, in your face, look how bad I'm screwed up..try this detail. She needs someone to say,"What's hurting?" Not, she can write whatever she wants.
Robin's and my path aren't that different but I can't come here and say what shocking memories are at the top of my list. You know, it's hard to put your drunk mother to bed while she's making innuendos about sex. Makes a young boy very uncomfortable. Should I have even said that here? No! But I'm trying to make a point.Whatever mental illness you arrive here withis a combination of nature and nurture or just bad luck. I haven't felt real fortunate to be medicated for the past 20 years. What you gonna do?
I think Robin needs help now. Not just congrats on the marriage. I've had that level of anger several times and I can tell you that's when I'm closest to killing myself.
If I implied,"Get over your disease instead of get over this anger, I apologize." Trouble deals with some bad demons, everyone here is empathetic to that. But, like it or not, you can't come here spewing anger at someone who's done nothing to deserve it. We have to be accountable.
My two older brother's are all I have in this life. Years ago, they would say,'Stop taking those pills, that crap is hurting you. Just deal with it and move on." I had to get livid several times before they would just..how are the meds Phil? By the way, we love you very much. When you feel better we can... That's a far cry from get over it.
I was mad at Robin today and had just woke up. It was one of my most sincere posts on this board. I got scared enough to get mad and say..Get over it(the anger and reminders)and, for once, stick around long enough to let us love you, damnit. Stop shooting yourself in the foot.
Robin and I communicated thru email for a while, I still believe and want to be her friend. If I hurt you today, Robin, I'm very sorry. It doesn't mean I don't love you.
I'll take an 8 week block too if either Wendy or Alii think I should. You've got my word.
My apologies,
Phil
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