Re: so much energy

Posted by Lini on April 25, 2002, at 13:14:59

In reply to Re: so much energy » Lini, posted by Shar on April 25, 2002, at 12:10:25

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I think people would not be any happier if the door was unlocked but still closed.
Using your analogy--If the boards are rooms we can run in and out of, the 2000 board is IMO not really one with a closed and locked door. It is one that has an open door and a doorway at which you can stand and hear/read all the conversation and see who is in there. You just can't go inside and converse. Which ought to be ok if you meant it when you said "We don't particualry want to go in your room..."
Shar

I must have been unclear, cause you're missing my point . . . standing at the door and looking in, however not being able to converse, is pretty much equivalent to the door being locked, closed, an invisible force field, a junk yard dog or anything else that basically says NO TRESSPASSING. (ie. no posting)
The issue is that the boundary exists, not what's on the other side. Get it? I have no interest in a reunion board, but I am interested in the concept of exclusiveness, or separateness or no tresspassing and how it relates to a support group. I think that this is a pretty simple concept to get.
You don't need to feel like you have to justify the reunion boards existence - you didn't create it. If Dr. Bob created a "Lini and Friends" board, you'd bet I'd be on there, enjoying it, and feeling pretty supported, but it wouldn't be a mystery to me why others might be offended...

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Shar, you're great. » Shar beardedlady 4/24/02
Re: Greg - Look what's happened! » Greg Lini 4/24/02
Re: how wars are started Lini 4/24/02
(I am a writer wannabe in real life.) Thanks! (nm) » beardedlady Shar 4/24/02
i imagine a lot of us... » Shar Krazy Kat 4/24/02
Re: great research Dr. Bob 4/24/02
Now he's a comedian. (Great line!) (nm) » Dr. Bob Zo 4/24/02
Re: so much energy » Dr. Bob Mitchell 4/25/02
Re: so much energy Phil 4/25/02
Re: so much energy » Phil Lini 4/25/02
Re: so much energy » Lini Shar 4/25/02
Re: so much energy » Lini Anyuser 4/25/02
Re: so much energy Lini 4/25/02
Re: so much energy :-) That's funny! (nm) » Anyuser Lini 4/25/02
oh, shar, it's so different... Krazy Kat 4/25/02
Re: oh, shar, it's so different... » Krazy Kat DinahM 4/25/02
Re: rooms and doors Dr. Bob 4/25/02
Re: rooms and doors » Dr. Bob DinahM 4/25/02
Re: rooms and doors » Dr. Bob Lini 4/25/02
Re: I'm glad you understand. » Lini DinahM 4/25/02
Re: I'm glad you understand. » DinahM Lini 4/25/02
Can we end this??????? Phil 4/25/02
Re: Can we end this??????? » Phil Anyuser 4/25/02
Re: Can we end this??????? » Anyuser Shar 4/26/02
Can we end this?....U R Right; a zero-sum event (nm) » Phil Shar 4/26/02
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Re: My 2 cents » Anyuser Lini 4/28/02

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