Posted by Phillipa on July 12, 2012, at 19:05:19
In reply to Re: Re Instead.... » SLS, posted by SLS on July 12, 2012, at 17:33:48
I guess that is what emotionally saved me with emotional abuse the knowing that it was the medication my Mother was on that caused the temper tantrums she had and borderline behavior in yelling at me, blaming me, then saying she loved me. Pdocs have said the abandonment issues are my problem. As never knew when returned home if there would be an ambulence taking Mother to hospital for an addrenal crisis. I rationally know I didn't make her sick as she acused me. I just swore I'd always look at the positives that my own kids did and praise it and not focus on negative. Evidently this worked as all three are very independant now and happy with jobs or disabled as my Son but with his own family. Oh one slap to thigh for each kid when their lives endangered as walking into the street as a toddler. As babies never had any terrible twos. No idea why their genes and personalities I guess. And being home with them all. Phillipa
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