Posted by floatingbridge on September 26, 2011, at 16:18:38
In reply to I'm starting to regret my hate messages, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on September 25, 2011, at 23:07:22
Hey Matt,
Many people have mixed feelings about their parents, especially their moms. Moms just seem to get in the way somehow no matter what. I know. I am one.
My youngest sibling stayed in our house until she was 30. She kinda got caught there. While my parents helped her try to move out, she became more enmeshed despite everyone's intentions. She did, like some posters above mentioned, become bitter and blameful of others. When she did move out, it was such a boon to her.
Please don't feel ashamed about having mixed feelings about your mom. Get some good therapy, and you might find that
confusion or shame lifting.Keep up the tough work. It can pay off in feeling better about your life. This would be wonderful.
I dig a pony.
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