Posted by hyperfocus on April 1, 2011, at 20:21:00
In reply to Autodestroying thougths ! how to stop them? help, posted by tepi on March 27, 2011, at 16:53:40
tepi maybe the best thing would be to tell her you've got an illness? I know telling somebody you have MI is a real big deal but the alternative of hiding it and making yourself miserable doesn't sound very desirable. Men and women are supposed to like each other for the good things we see in each other - if she can't hold on to you because you have this illness then maybe she's not worth pursuing. One thing you DO find out as you get older is that looks aren't that important and neither is charm. Some of the most attractive charming people are really very vile and selfish underneath.
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