Posted by ed_uk2010 on September 2, 2010, at 13:32:19
In reply to Re: 'Best Psychiatrist' list - I'm Off Nardil now!, posted by Enigma on September 1, 2010, at 22:53:16
Hi
>lost soul mate because one *ssh*l* bouncer couldn't let me in the door - even for 5 mins - just so I could tell my sweetheart that I wasn't going to be able to join them. THEN, I could have got her PHONE NUMBER AT LEAST and I'll bet, if her feelings where as real as she made them out to be, I'd be so happy right now
I'm not sure I understand. How did you know Sarah? If you knew her well enough to know that she was your soul mate, didn't you have her contact details already? I don't want to pry. Don't answer if you feel uncomfortable. I just wonder whether you're in love with the idea of being in love. You seem 'love sick'. It seems to me that real love is not often so rosy, at least not for long.
>throw lemon wedges up to the balcony they HAD to be seen.What sort of bars/clubs/etc are you going to? Have you considered that you might be going to the wrong type of place? Bars aren't necessarily a good place to meet people. They are often very noisy ...and don't always attract the most pleasant people.
>it's easy to pick on old creepy guy.....
Unless you were at a bar which is only frequented by twentysomethings, why would anyone think you were old and creepy? I suppose this is why I don't think you're going to the right places. Do you have any hobbies? Hobbies can be a good way to meet likeminded people.
>My "alone" bar experience have been disasters.
Yeah, it's very difficult. I've only done it twice. Once is was OK, the other time it was horrible. If you're going to a bar you really need to go with a friend. If you don't have anyone to go with, avoid bars and go somewhere else instead. For example, if you like music go to a concert. People do not abuse each other at concerts!
>I don't understand why women think they can be so utterly cruel to a complete stranger
Probably very insecure themselves. Bars and clubs are full of morons. Why not find somewhere more pleasant to go? Somewhere where you can actually hear what people are saying. Somewhere a little more refined :) I don't want to sound like a snob but you're only likely to find abusive behaviour in certain types of venue.
Best of luck finding somewhere nice to go! Join an evening class at your local college. Anything.... but don't expect to find your soulmate in a club. A lot of people in clubs are too drunk or drugged to even remember you name.
Take care.
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