Posted by bimini on September 3, 2008, at 19:41:13
In reply to Re: When do you disclose?, posted by mandra on September 2, 2008, at 19:55:34
I disclose when I need accomodation to do my job. I have a brain injury and difficulty with light, noise, movement... I need more and longer breaks, can't multitask, get irritated when interrupted.
I have a memory span of about 10 seconds, can't write down a phone # while listening to it, can't write the letter when someone spells it. Can't pick up a conversation when interrupted because I totally forget all that was said before.
I can work if I and an employer can be flexible and openminded. I did not choose this. I am a surviver, a fighter. As long as I focus more on what I can do than anything else, those qualities cast shadows on my faults.
I don't disclose when accomodations cannot be made. It is useless trying to explain my world, I will be this difficult person whether I tell or keep it to myself. In relationships I am upfront. I will say that I have a braininjury and that I am trying to be the best I know how.
bimini
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