Posted by your#1fan on February 10, 2008, at 20:40:17
In reply to I have some questions to ask you » your#1fan, posted by Racer on February 10, 2008, at 12:36:50
Hey hey! ok here we go 3.........2...........1 lets go!
1. What is it you're looking for? Do you want to stop having the sorts of mood swings you seem to have? Reduce the anxiety you report here? Improve your ability to function? What is the outcome you're hoping for?
++Im looking for success in life, and reaching my goals but im always plagued by things, (things at home) that interfere. In a way, i dont want to constantly be in same state all the time. Anxiety is very plaguing to me, but it stimulates my butt to get things done! i have to get them done or i'll fail, i'll fail my life's ambition. Improve abulity to function??? i would definently say that a therpist and Dexedrine would help. My overall ambition i made 3 years working for a broker firm such as Merrill Lynch, being an executive. S-U-C-C-E-S-S
2. How much effort, if any, are you willing to make in order to reach that goal? Be realistic -- if the only effort you're willing to make is swallowing a pill, be honest about it; if you're willing to do more, be realistic about what you can do.
++Well, i almost kill myself just reaching small goals, but i know that i am going to make it, it may not seem like it right now.Swallowing a pill, now at one time i thought there was the magic medication to help me get to my Star Goal. Now i realize its myself inside, pride, ego, willpower, and i will tell you, lately i have been going crazy to get things done, because it must be done! i always was the "slow one" who didnt catch on very quickly.
3. What, specifically, do you think it would take to obtain the outcome you desire? What steps could you take to reach that goal? The more specific you can be, the better the chance that something good will come of it.4. Can you think of any professional you could work with to help you reach that goal?
two awnsers, its the advice of the professional therpist to give me, change my thoughts and thinking patterns i so little of myself, then its up to me to use willpower and ambition to get the hell out there and make it!
Now i admit, seriously if you met me in person....im a good looking guy, but im so freaked out "where are my KEYS!" OH NO!!!!!!!!! I LOST THEM AGAIN!
Did you know i was on campus serching for my backpack with 500$ books and all my work in it, and i found out i just left in the gym. I never had the satisfaction of finding them, because i was so upset and nuerotic, THIS IS ALL MY WORK I LOST! DANMIT! Its these things that i think i subcousisouly do, like not paying attention, forget where my stuff is, but i sure do have fun doing it! not!Thanks, i hope now you know me a bit better. Plus you have known me for years, but i've changed since high school. In collage right now.....
I do admit i wished there was a magic pill to take, like with concetration, so i could be more calm, focused, and driven. But nope, its just on my willpower right now...
Alright racer! by the no one else posted......i guess there not a fan of your#1fan
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