Posted by barbaracat on February 22, 2005, at 17:05:17
In reply to Re: Cymbalta (duloxetine) - report, posted by Phillipa on February 22, 2005, at 16:53:30
But if he goes back to work, your anxiety would definitely lessen and I'm sure you'd find things to do. I know I would. I'd put on music and get back to belly dancing in the living room and not care about how fat he thinks I look shakin' it in my coin belt. You know? You could have your own thoughts and energy back and it may be hard at first, but you'd get into the flow. I know I will.
My husband and I tried to start our own computer consulting business and it went OK for a while then business dried up. Yes, times are very tough and realizing this is rather frightening. What's happening to this country is another story...
You could write to me privately through babble mail if you want. I enjoy your posts to me and do feel not so alone. - Barbara
> You're not alone. My husband has been out of work since we moved. He tried to start his own business but it's too seasonal here. Now, after l l/2yrs, he can't get his old job back. This after they assured him that he always could. His twin sister's husband works at the same job there, and there are just no jobs now. We chose pdocs, etc., in that area so we could move back. Yes, he's depressed, and I've been playing doctor with him and giving him something to sleep each night. We only have my Disability to live on, so I know what you're going through. And, if you're anxious and depressed yourself, it's a vicious circle. I'm sure his problems would disappear if he could again work. Then my anxiety would increase because he's not home. Why did I ever stop working and become so disfunctional? Fondly, Phillipa
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