Posted by ed_uk on February 8, 2005, at 12:24:43
In reply to Re: Hi Jeroen, posted by Jeroen on February 8, 2005, at 11:33:54
Hi,
>the thing is i loved a girl, i put a year energy in it, then just when my TD happened i fell into depression and 1 month or 3 weeks later she asked to get together. i said no because of my problem, but i definatelly wanted to say yes
>2 weeks later she called me she had sex with somebody else that i hatePerhaps she was upset because she felt that you had rejected her. Maybe she rang you to tell you that she'd had sex with another man because she was angry. She probably didn't even have sex with him - I bet she just said that to 'punish' you for rejecting her.
You must explain that you refused to get back together with her because you were angry and upset about your TD. I think she will understand because she will know that you have had a hard time lately. I think she might still love you and want to get back together with you but she will still be angry. You need to call her and explain why you refused to get back together with her. Tell her that you still love her and want to get back together with her, you will regret it later if you don't tell her how you feel. Is she still with the man that you hate? I bet she still loves you!
Ed.
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