Posted by HappyGirl on July 20, 2004, at 23:54:12
In reply to new hubby into pills, alcohol, MJ and VIAGRA, posted by retrojen on July 20, 2004, at 20:19:29
Hi:
Sorry to say bluntly, ... but you might have been 'blinded' by love you have for him.
In reading the following paragraph tells all of his problems you've been encountering AFTER GOT MARRIED him.
>>> ... he smoked pot "occaisionally". I didn't mind - I have no problem with purely recreational use. I already knew he drank- daily, but moderately. He admitted to having a prescription for Ativan "a long time ago" for having sleep problems. <<<Normally, any HEALTHY adult males do NOT enjoy the above, ... in my opinion. Then, you need to decide whether you'are able to handle the current situation with your new hushand, that may reqire a tremendous energy, both emotionally and financially. Because, those problems demand, first of all, financial and emotional resources to get better.
In my personal opinion,... since you ALREADY married him, you'd better to encourage him to go any meeting(for drinking) or appointment(for psychiatrist). As a NEW wife, you may need not only 'unconditional love' but also 'a lot of PATIENCE' to get through this situation.
Eventually, after 'HARD WORK' with some tears, both you and your NEW husband cherich 'TRUE' love and 'GENUINE' soul-mate.GOOD LUCK both!!!
H.G.
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