Posted by loolot on October 13, 2003, at 11:21:35
In reply to Okay, i finally did it !!, posted by Still Hurting on October 13, 2003, at 8:22:04
Still Hurting, I know you are going through a heart wrenching time with this abandonment from your old therapist. It sounds so hard, almost as hard as a break up you dont expect, something like that.
I think you should take a hands off approach to this, though. Consider this a withdrawal period and you have to just get through the shakes and the sweats alone. It will be extremely painful, but the more you try and let this person know how much she hurt you, the less she will even consider your opinion.
She may already know, and if you stay silent and go on with your life she will have to deal with those feelings. If you try and reach her she wont deal with them because she can write you off as mentally ill.
She was wrong for doing that, but you just have to let go now. I am so sorry for all of this. You sound like you are going through so much pain it is almost unbearable.
Just try and weather the storm. Do what you have to do, meditation helps me during these times. Call whomever you can, you are withdrawing, remember...
Just dont let this ruin your own life.
We are here for you on the board, too
Good luck
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