Posted by eloise on February 19, 2003, at 10:40:26
In reply to Re: sexual compulsives, posted by ricardo on February 19, 2003, at 9:08:48
I have hesitated to say something on this as well, because it is a most unattractive topic...but I will add this much: In your post that began this discussion I understood you to say that your boyfriend does know of your plans to cheat on him and that is the issue of concern. I attended several SCA meetings with a woman I was friends with and experienced not a small amount of outrage when she spoke about the origins of her behavior. Maybe she doesn't really love her husband, maybe she has low self-esteem, maybe she craves more attention than she gets at home, maybe she shouldn't feel guily as has been stated here. Well, boys, she was wrong and trying to put the blame elsewhere, guilt is our most valuable emotional asset. When you make plans to cheat on your boyfriend on Valentine's Day, I think you should feel very guilty, regardless of the current state of your relationship,and having him find out is nothing if not horrible. I think I would just curl up and die. Keeping that sort of information from a person is so very wrong when it comes to sexual promiscuity, do i need to say, in this day and age. I hope you fix what have done to him and then enjoy a happy joyful life with your next lover. Bless.
poster:eloise
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