Posted by Dr. Bob on January 3, 2003, at 22:15:58
In reply to In defence of Syringachalet and civility » johnj, posted by bluedog on January 3, 2003, at 19:27:24
> I can guess you have never had a panic attack or a major depressive episode by your statements.
> I just plain disagree with what you said. It would help if you would not be so vauge about what you do. Since you are a nurse, and have experiences, I am shocked at how you feel.
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> johnj> I feel compelled to refer you to a post recently made by Simcha in this same thread.
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> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/20021223/msgs/133772.htmlThat was to john7219, not johnj...
> John you are making assumptions about other posters... Can you please try to be a bit more civil in your posts.
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> It saddens me that in her last post Syringachalet felt compelled to advise that she would no longer be contributing to this topic because I truly value her views just like I value the views of other posters on this board.
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> bluedogBut I agree. Please be civil even if you think someone's wrong.
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> your lack of self disclosure in that post (and others) makes me feel "talked down to".
> Had you personalized your message he, I and possibly others would have been able to better relate to your message.> I'm not judging you. I'm telling you the feeling tone *I* and possibly others may get from reading your posts. You don't have to bore others or repeat your history to personalize your messages.
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> ZeeZeePersonalizing a message means disclosing more? Thanks for trying to use "I-statements", but please also be careful not to pressure others.
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> Perhaps you havent had the time or the interest to read any of my past postings.
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> syringachaletThanks for responding civilly!
Bob
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