Posted by Terry Lynn on September 2, 2000, at 13:56:42
In reply to Re: keeping taking antidepressants a secret.., posted by michael on September 2, 2000, at 2:13:17
It is hard to share personal info., like seeing a phyciatrist,therapist, or taking meds. I'm not embarressed or do I feel bad about seeking help for my depression or even taking meds for it. I can't cope without the help, I feel anyone who has negative things to say about it, has a bigger problem than I. I have found sharing this type of information with loved ones (My boyfriend, for example) tends to backfire in my face. I have alot of support and understanding until an argument comes up. then that info. is used to try to put me down. " You're crazy" My fav, "Why don't you take another crazy pill?" At first it used to hurt, then it made me mad, now it makes me think he's an ignorant SOB. It's a judgement call as mentioned in above message, but be prepared for negativity, but don't let that stop you from doing what you think you need to do!! It won't hurt them, only you. But, on the other hand there are some great people who will support you and the others can, well never mind, but ignore them, it's just ignorance. Don't worry about them. Lean toward your supporters. I think there are alot of really wonderful, caring people on this Web site. I have a few E-mail buddies that contacted me through this Web site.It is great to have someone who is going through similar experiences. That has been of great help to me. Don't rule out family & friends however, they can be some of your best supporters. Just be prepared and don't take into account negativity others may dish out to you. Brush it off. Good Luck. Terry Lynn
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