Posted by NikkiT on May 30, 2000, at 10:55:33
In reply to Re: thank you friends, posted by Sara T on May 29, 2000, at 17:26:04
((((hugs))))
I wish there was somehting I could say that would help you right now, but there isn't anything I can think of. Losing your baby must ahve been the hardest thing in the world for you. I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks in january, and I hadn't even realised I was pregnant (I'm on the pill), but it was still hard, and my husband said some nasty things at the time, but I know he didn't mean them... But they were nothing compared to what your awful ex did / said.
It must be hard to think that, if he thought these things, to say them to you was completely out of order, and you are better off without him. And as sara said, there will be another time when you are ready for children, and I'm very sure that there will be no problems to you conceiving... with the right man, and for the right reasons. It would be very unfair on any child just to have it to try and keep you happy - it may not work...
One day, you'll make a wonderful mum, but keep coming here, and using us as your screaming post until the day you can manage alone.
Thats what we're all here for Kathy,
Take care xxx
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