Posted by Noa on January 1, 2000, at 10:00:11
In reply to Re: My best friend died, posted by juniper on December 31, 1999, at 2:28:16
Annie,
Losing a loved one is traumatic.
I have a hard time believing Rocco's death was your fault. It sounds like his illness had only the sublest of signs, and certainly nothing that suggessted a serious illness. How could you have known, and even if you had, perhaps this was not something that could have been reversed.
I was thinking about how lucky Rocco was to have you, a human who loved him and respected him. How many other beautiful cats there must be who need someone like you to adopt them?
Give yourself some time to grieve. This intense, traumatic moment is NOT the time to make decisions about stopping your meds. Keep everything else in your life steady and continuous. Don't change anything.
Create a memory box or book about Rocco. I am sure you have pictures. Write the entire story of how he came into your life and your life together. This will help you keep in in your memories.
I am glad you posted here. Keep in touch. Take good care of your self. I know that is something Rocco would want for you.
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