Posted by Shar on June 10, 2006, at 20:05:09
In reply to I wish I could stay done..., posted by Racer on May 26, 2006, at 23:58:30
Racer,
Somehow you gotta find a way to STOP beating yourself up. You gotta find your KMA boundary...that's the Kiss My A** boundary, where you no longer let people who do you damage, do you anymore damage.Yes, we all show our a**es at times (boy, have I ever!) but that isn't an excuse for any person to take advantage of us, or make us feel ashamed, or make us have a ton of guilt for having nothing other than thoughts. It is totally unacceptable that a THERAPIST becomes "the/rapist."
Work on the KMA boundary, I beseech thee. I'm still working on mine.
Take good care,
xoxo
Shar
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