Posted by Racer on December 17, 1999, at 14:11:49
In reply to Perhaps many have thought of the same question:, posted by anon (as if our names werent' virtually anon!) on December 5, 1999, at 4:28:45
Sorry, hoped this would catch your attention...
Mastubation is a GOOD thing, all the way around. It shows that you love yourself, and care enough about yourself to indulge in pleasure. Don't be shy with your psychiatrist, if he/she has a problem with your being worried about anorgasmia when you don't have a partner, well, that's not YOUR problem, is it? Be healthy, and love yourself.
After all, if I don't play with myself, I'll never learn what feels good, so I have to hope that my partner is smarter about these things than I am.
Now I'll get off my soapbox.
I'm having good luck with Periactin, which blocks the effects of the SSRI for a short time, and let's me scream with pleasure and delight. That said, yes, I've experienced giving up because it's just too much work for not nearly enough return. I've just about burnt out my vibrator hoping that something would finally happen. With the Periactin, I've felt shivers and quivers and then the fireworks have started just the way they should.
Good luck.
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