Posted by Cindy on December 6, 1999, at 21:20:10
In reply to Re: Perhaps many have thought of the same question:, posted by doug on December 6, 1999, at 17:26:35
> > > If the issue is amount of time it takes to resolution this may be an issue by yourself but if with another no one will mind !
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> You are right if the issue was that it only takes longer. In most cases that would be better for everyone involved. Unfortunately that isn't really the issue the issue with anorgasmia. The bummer is NO resolution at all ( i.e. - no orgasm ), and until it happens to you, I don't think you can completely understand how frustrating it is to you. Believe it or not anorgasmia (just speaking from my experience) is also frustrating to the partner (in my case my girlfriend). She took pleasure in
> the fact that I achieved orgasm with her (she had made me feel the ultimate pleasure), and it made her feel even better.Doug, I agree that anorgasmia is a true bummer (once I tried for 4 hours, on Luvox, with no results even by myself!). My partner was equally bummed because he too takes pleasure in making me feel wonderful, so the anorgasmia affects two people, not just one, with frustration and sadness.--Cindy
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