Posted by Racer on September 30, 1999, at 23:42:00
In reply to Re: jumping with Dee, posted by Dee on September 30, 1999, at 11:22:08
I don't know if I subscribe totally to the "inner child" part. There's something to it, but I don't think it's the final answer.
I know that I push people away because I'm so terrified that if I make the committment to someone, that someone will find out what a total loser I am and leave me and then I'll be crushed. I've found the best thing I can do is to keep up my own life, or even expand it at the beginning of a new relationship, so that I'm not so dependant on one person for everything.
Ask me in a month or so how it's working ;-)
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