Posted by Dr. Bob on October 28, 1998, at 23:42:37
In reply to Re: Personality conflicts -- WRONG!, posted by Lisa on October 18, 1998, at 21:28:40
> Now why did you snip out the way he treated me,
> not keeping up on notes, rude on phone, etc.,
> and move right into where I said I didn't yell
> at him or scorn his actions?? Read that way, it
> DOES seem as though I took it personally. Well
> no, Dr. Bob, I didn't.That's good. I was afraid you were feeling at
fault.> There was no reason for me to take it that way.
> We did not HAVE a personality conflict because
> there was barely any relationship to begin with.> Whatever happened, you need to keep in mind with
> a bullentin board like this, that there will be
> many patients who have or will have bad
> experiences with bad doctors. You can not defend
> incompetent dotors. There are some of us that
> can still spot a quack! :)I see, it's clear now where you place the blame. :-)
I realize I'm swimming against the current here,
and I don't mean to be insensitive, but let me just
say that in theory it *is* conceivable that a
personality conflict was the problem. IOW, he may
have been a bad doctor for you because your
personalities didn't mesh, but it may be that he
may be a fine doctor for patients with different
personalities. Or he may just be a bad doctor,
period. It's hard to say without knowing more.Bob
poster:Dr. Bob
thread:860
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