Posted by Lisa on October 18, 1998, at 21:28:40
In reply to Re: Personality conflicts, posted by Dr. Bob on October 16, 1998, at 9:34:59
> > As for the personality conflict subject, of
> > course doctors are people too. :D And I would
> > be first to admit if there was a clash in our
> > personalities... I never yelled at him or
> > scorned his actions, but only asked "why?"...
> When you first mentioned personality conflicts, I
> took it to mean your personality and his just
> didn't mix well. Maybe you took it to mean your
> personality had too many conflicts? IOW, that it
> was your fault? That may not have been what he
> meant...
> BobNow why did you snip out the way he treated me, not keeping up on notes, rude on phone, etc., and move right into where I said I didn't yell at him or scorn his actions?? Read that way, it DOES seem as though I took it personally. Well no, Dr. Bob, I didn't. There was no reason for me to take it that way. We did not HAVE a personality conflict because there was barely any relationship to begin with. And if you think I might be misreading this doctor, then you should be telling my husband that too, since he was present when all these things happened and left the office as shocked as I was. Plus, my husband does not have any mental illnesses, so he's not inclined to see things out of proportion.
Thanks for your input but either you were not reading my posts closely enough, or maybe I was not getting my point across clearly. Whatever happened, you need to keep in mind with a bullentin board like this, that there will be many patients who have or will have bad experiences with bad doctors. You can not defend incompetent dotors. There are some of us that can still spot a quack! :)
Lisa
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