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Posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 16:48:09
I not around much, trying to break free but it does NOT mean I do not care. I do.
I hope all know that they can post anytime. They do not have to support, its give and take at diff times.
I PREFER to be strong and support, it is harder to ask for help.
It is important to communicate, this is what I learning.
I hope the babblers who not been round much are all doing OK. I send best wishes to all.
And babblers whats around, I am hoping you can be good to each other, and I am hoping there can be some peace and joy in your lives.
Life can be so hard.
There is so many things that make no sens e and hurt our hearts so bad.
But there's good too, much beauty.
Take care.
I read but not post, just wanted to say I send good wishes to all as I read.
M
Posted by Phillipa on April 9, 2008, at 17:21:45
In reply to So many babblers not around much..., posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 16:48:09
Muffled you're such a sweetheart. I think a lot of posters are around and starting to feel safer as Bob is back. Notify admin button works very well too. Might want to stay away from administrative end and focus on you and how much your words mean to others. You are so brave and thoughful. love Phillipa
Posted by LadyBug on April 9, 2008, at 18:02:42
In reply to So many babblers not around much..., posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 16:48:09
Muffled,
I feel the same way as you do. I read but don't post much. I do care about everyone here on babble. I learn so much and know I can get support when I need it.
My T is out of the country right now and will return next week making it a month between my sessions. I haven't really even missed her because we had a big challenge come up right before she left. I was angry at her, and she with me. I don't want to go next week and maybe not for awhile. I always make things worse. I take the blame for anything that happens to rock the boat. But when I told her all the details of the birth and adoption of my daughter's baby, she was so cold the whole hour. That hurt! She was the one person I chose to tell the details to and I felt I could cry in her presence. After she tells me in a voice mail that I lost control and I should have let me daughter grieve and me the strong one. That's not exactly how it happened but basically. She hurt me!!!! By not showing any care or concern of what I had gone through. The adoption of my first grandchild was the hardest thing I've ever gone through.
Sorry to get carried away on this thread. I haven't posted in awhile so it came out here.
Sorry.
You are such a caring and warm person. Always so helpful. Sometimes we can give and sometimes we need to take.
Take Care~
LadyBug
Posted by TherapyGirl on April 9, 2008, at 20:41:20
In reply to So many babblers not around much..., posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 16:48:09
Muffly, you are a gift to the universe.
I'm around, mostly under the radar. My surgery is next Tuesday. I've been freaking out more than a little, trying not to spread the stress. But I find comfort here even when I don't post.
I'm glad to see a post from you. I miss you.
Posted by star008 on April 9, 2008, at 21:01:11
In reply to So many babblers not around much..., posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 16:48:09
hey muffled..
i read, sometimes post.. can't seem to stay away but don't share much of what is going on lately.. maybe later. I understand how you are feeling, i think.. i care too but sometimes i think babble makes me just go deeper into my own sh**t..and sometimes people hurt me with their posts and then i don't want to post again. and sometimes they want to argue and to me there is no point in that.. i get discouraged and protective.. no more hurt..... be around muffled.
Posted by I need a hug on April 11, 2008, at 0:44:55
In reply to Re: So many babblers not around much... » muffled, posted by star008 on April 9, 2008, at 21:01:11
Muffled,
Thank you for such a thoughtful post. I hope things are going well for you. Like you and others, I read but don't post much anymore but I do care. Best wishes to all of you. HUGS
Posted by muffled on April 12, 2008, at 23:58:13
In reply to So many babblers not around much..., posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 16:48:09
There IS beauty out there....
M
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