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Posted by TexasChic on November 13, 2008, at 9:23:36
Well, the place across the street is out because they filled the position before I got to interview. The place down the street that I was also very excited about and thought I was perfect for said they didn't think I had the experience and skills they were looking for. I obviously missed something on that one. The only one left now that I am still somewhat interested in is this company that sells security equipment. The other two (out of the ones I interviewed for here recently) are long drives. Of course my plan was that if I took one of those I would move once my lease is up in Jan. But now I'm wondering how I'd afford the gas until I got a 1st paycheck. Really that's a worry for anything other than something down the street. I'm just feeling really discouraged about this right now.
-T
Posted by TexasChic on November 13, 2008, at 10:02:24
In reply to Job search, posted by TexasChic on November 13, 2008, at 9:23:36
Then there's Christmas, I always buy my nephew's Santa gifts. Plus I borrowed some money from my Mom, which wouldn't be so bad except that now I'm out of money and my account is overdrawn, so there's no where else to turn. And I'll feel bad until I pay her back because she took a cash advance off her credit card to give it to me. I hope the balance due for the next couple of months isn't too high for her. She's barely getting by. Plus I think she's become anorexic over the last several years, so I always wonder if she's eating. I just want a normal life, go to work, pay my bills, be able to help out my relatives when I can. And I miss my nephew. Everything is just so up in the air right now. I hate that.
-T
Posted by TexasChic on November 13, 2008, at 10:21:08
In reply to More of my pity party, posted by TexasChic on November 13, 2008, at 10:02:24
It was about a year ago that Kitty had his surgery, and they said he would probably only live another year after that (they said the cancerous tumors would grow back in that time). So although he's doing really good, I worry. I really can't imagine life without him. He's been my sole companion during the last 4 years of self imposed isolation. I'm not lonely as long as he's around.
Anyway, I think that's finally it. I felt like I needed to unburden all the bad stuff that's been going around my head. Thanks for listening.
-T
Posted by manic666 on November 13, 2008, at 11:44:08
In reply to And more..., posted by TexasChic on November 13, 2008, at 10:21:08
baby , its off your chest now so let it go, dont be mad, but carnt you get a kitten with your old cat it will be good for you an the cat. if you lived nearer than the 3000miles i would buy you one.
Posted by TexasChic on November 13, 2008, at 12:02:23
In reply to Re: And more..., posted by manic666 on November 13, 2008, at 11:44:08
Thanks, you are so sweet! Yes, I've thought of getting a kitten, that would help me to go on when the time comes. But my cat is very skiddish, and I don't want to upset him, especially if he gets sick again. But if he continues to do well, I might try it at a later time (when my job situation is under control). And I do feel better after getting all that off my chest. Thanks for the support. I'm going to do some more job hunting now.
-T
Posted by Phillipa on November 13, 2008, at 13:14:42
In reply to Re: And more... » manic666, posted by TexasChic on November 13, 2008, at 12:02:23
T it's not you. Heard from a very distinguished guy in post office that was managorial that here now there are 5000 looking at each new job as it's posted. Scarey. Love Phillipa
Posted by Kath on November 15, 2008, at 20:48:35
In reply to And more..., posted by TexasChic on November 13, 2008, at 10:21:08
((((you)))
I am so sorry that you're going through this & have all these burdens.It is SO hard for me to not be able to help people I care about when they have troubles.
Anyhow, I can send you positive, loving thoughts (which I already do) so I'll continue to do that.
much love, Kath
Posted by paxvox59 on November 21, 2008, at 14:35:46
In reply to Job search, posted by TexasChic on November 13, 2008, at 9:23:36
ARRGGHHHH!!!! I have been having a miserable time trying to find a job! Bad enough that the market is as it is, then I have the added baggage of just getting out of prison! Egads! What's person supposed to do? I am going to do some volunteer work just to get out of the house for awhile.
PAX
Posted by Kath on November 21, 2008, at 17:39:16
In reply to Re: Job search, posted by paxvox59 on November 21, 2008, at 14:35:46
Volunteer work sounds like a really good idea.
It'll get you out of the house; give you the wonderful feeling of helping others in some way; let you meet people who might know of jobs; give you experience which might be valuable in a future job; give you positive interaction which could lead to you being able to get letters of recommendation from those you volunteer for/with.
Good luck, Kath
Posted by Kath on November 21, 2008, at 21:26:07
In reply to Re: Job search, posted by paxvox59 on November 21, 2008, at 14:35:46
Hi PAX - I would have thought that there'd be some assistance in a case like yours. That they'd help people who were just getting out, to get a job.
Do you have Employment Agencies? I am in Ontario, Canada & we have Employment Agencies here, that will help people, free, to get a job (or at least to try).
Kath
Posted by paxvox59 on November 22, 2008, at 10:29:43
In reply to Re: Job search » paxvox59, posted by Kath on November 21, 2008, at 17:39:16
Thanks, Kath!
Posted by paxvox59 on November 22, 2008, at 10:33:43
In reply to Re: Job search » paxvox59, posted by Kath on November 21, 2008, at 21:26:07
Oh my, you would like to THINK so, wouldn't you, but most states have very bare-boned systems in place for released prisoners. Also, I had to leave South Carolina to return to VA since I (literally) had no place to go in SC! Now, IF I had stayed in SC, I could have gone to Vocational Rehab for some nominal items like $25 vouchers for tools and clothing. Since I had drug convictions, I will never be eligible for food stamps or state assistance from SC (go figure!). LUCKILY, my one brother has let me come stay with him in VA, but I still feel like it is a burden to him. :(
Posted by Kath on November 22, 2008, at 13:07:22
In reply to Re: Job search, posted by paxvox59 on November 22, 2008, at 10:33:43
> Oh my, you would like to THINK so, wouldn't you, but most states have very bare-boned systems in place for released prisoners. Also, I had to leave South Carolina to return to VA since I (literally) had no place to go in SC! Now, IF I had stayed in SC, I could have gone to Vocational Rehab for some nominal items like $25 vouchers for tools and clothing. Since I had drug convictions, I will never be eligible for food stamps or state assistance from SC (go figure!). LUCKILY, my one brother has let me come stay with him in VA, but I still feel like it is a burden to him. :(
~ ~ ~ I'm sorry.
Beurocracy (sp?) upsets me so much. Especially 'cast in stone FOREVER' things.
Sorry for my ignorance - is VA Virginia? I wish you the very best in setting up a new life for yourself. Is there any help for you in VA as to Vocation Rehab type of thing? Do you have "Social Services" in the States? That's what we call it here.
I'm glad it worked out for you to stay with your brother. I'm sorry you feel like a burden. Perhaps he doesn't view it like that at all.
hugs, Kath
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