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Posted by Angela2 on September 29, 2007, at 16:45:22
I don't have a job and I'm not in school. I'm doing volunteer work and taking a class, but I feel like that isn't enough, doesn't take up enough of my time, so then I get bored and lonely.
And I want to make money. I do. really really really want to. I don't know why I'm taking so long to find a job.
The last job I had sucked, and I'm sort of nervous the next one will be too, but I could always quit if it was.
When I was looking for a job in the past, someone from the dept. of labor was helping me. I sort of had a crush on him and felt sort of uncomfortable around him cuz of this.
I think I'm ready to start looking for a job again. I think I'm going to make a call to him (dept of labor guy) again sometime this week to tell him I'm ready for a job.
But sometimes I think "should I call him? I don't want to feel uncomfortable." I'm so weird. I think I "think too much."
The thing is, when I was looking for a job, I thought about him all the time.
I don't want to do that.
I think I'm going to wait til Wednesday when I have my T appt. and talk to her about it.
Also, I feel like I can't have friends right now because I don't know what to tell my peers about not having a job. Like what do I say? OK, well thanks for reading. If you have any advice on any of this, please respond. I haven't written anything personal like this in a long time so sort of nervous posting. thank you.
Posted by Michael83 on September 29, 2007, at 17:58:44
In reply to ramblings, posted by Angela2 on September 29, 2007, at 16:45:22
I didn't know the dept of labor helped people find jobs (this is in the US right?)
But anyway, if you feel uncomfortable about him try to find a job on your own (classifieds, private job agency, etc).
Or option two, you could just not worry about the crush and work with the dept agency guy. When I find someone I really like, I usually develop crushes very quickly. But I've been let down so many times I trained myself to not take these crushes so seriously. I hate holding back feelings, but sometimes it makes life easier.
Posted by Sigismund on September 29, 2007, at 18:33:46
In reply to ramblings, posted by Angela2 on September 29, 2007, at 16:45:22
Other than that, it's fun....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fPDl2g8Upvk&mode=user&search=
Posted by Sigismund on September 29, 2007, at 18:34:47
In reply to ******Taste and Language Triggers******, posted by Sigismund on September 29, 2007, at 18:33:46
Posted by Phillipa on September 29, 2007, at 22:15:37
In reply to Re: ramblings » Angela2, posted by Michael83 on September 29, 2007, at 17:58:44
Were they related? Phillipa
Posted by Phillipa on September 29, 2007, at 22:18:13
In reply to Re: ramblings » Michael83, posted by Phillipa on September 29, 2007, at 22:15:37
to spell it can you go back? Maybe now? Phillipa
Posted by Michael83 on September 30, 2007, at 15:54:48
In reply to Re: ramblings » Michael83, posted by Phillipa on September 29, 2007, at 22:15:37
Was who related? I'm confused.
Posted by Phillipa on September 30, 2007, at 19:39:45
In reply to ******Taste and Language Triggers******, posted by Sigismund on September 29, 2007, at 18:33:46
Scatch it don't remember now either maybe on the video? Phillipa
Posted by Angela2 on October 3, 2007, at 11:29:27
In reply to Re: ramblings » Angela2, posted by Michael83 on September 29, 2007, at 17:58:44
Thanks for your response Michael. I am going to forget about getting help from him because I don't think it's working out or healthy for me to feel the way I do.
I'd like to try something else though. I feel so lost in regards to finding a job. Thanks.
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