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Posted by rjlockhart on March 12, 2006, at 22:32:05
We used to always have so good times when I was a kid, he picked me up in his mustang and went to movies with his girlfriend (long ago) know his wife (married in 1999)
I had such a good time growing up with Rick but things now arnt that way anymore.
He now is a lawyer, has a big house, a baby, and doesnt even seem to have me around anymore, i mean it just busted me when this happened.
What happened 1 year earlier was i crashed the company car (which he said he gave this mustang for my birthday) and i was leaving work at the law office because of school, but because of the accident i could do it anymore. What happened was one day i was working on his lawn and he said something really cocky to me and a threw a rock at his foot, and it accidnetly went into the laundry room and did a diagnol swirl and he turned his head and said "you just tried to kill me" get out of here, i dont want to see you.
I was like what? it was a freaking joke, what? he took me home and said you need to strainted up. I shut the door and walked to my house and said, im going away for a long time.
I did i didnt talk to him for 1 year because i could take what happened, not over the stupid rock. The car accidnet (not the recent car accidnet i was in an accident a year before, the work envoirment that was very unstable, and i didnt feel i could hold on to this intense conflict with my family (my mother and my dad) and it was getting very strectched over time, which i thought i was going to mess up all the time.
Now its not anything close, its cold, he doesnt want me around his family.
This is sad but i am going to have to get over this and make something of myself.
Matt
Posted by muffled on March 12, 2006, at 22:57:05
In reply to My brother just had a baby and is rejecting me, posted by rjlockhart on March 12, 2006, at 22:32:05
Posted by James K on March 13, 2006, at 0:04:35
In reply to My brother just had a baby and is rejecting me, posted by rjlockhart on March 12, 2006, at 22:32:05
Hey man, that is a hard pain.
I lived with my little sister's (she was my best friend in childhood) family for a couple of years. I helped raise my two nephews from birth. Then they moved. They left me high and dry in the house. It was real hard, because they moved out even earlier than they said they would. Later, My sister admitted to my wife that part of why they left was my negative moods. Thanks for ruining my life without talking to me about it.
Pain fades. It fades, but years later you can still see it. Hate never fades.
But that's my problem. We have to just take the hurts and go on. I have found some way to do that. I made my own family.
James K
Posted by Phillipa on March 13, 2006, at 19:20:38
In reply to Re: My brother just had a baby and is rejecting me » rjlockhart, posted by James K on March 13, 2006, at 0:04:35
Matt I'm sorry and you're so proud of being an uncle now. Can you talk to him and tell him you've grown up since last year? Love Mom 2 Jan
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