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Posted by Nezirov on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:30
In reply to Re: personally i hope people listen to him... » Nezirov, posted by linkadge on July 1, 2005, at 19:48:49
There are few things I disagree with you on here. It would seem our opinions are not so different after all.
What I do disagree with though is your assertion that "we think there is something wrong with us". I never thought there was something "wrong" with me. I just knew I was so stressed out that I needed some therapy.
I resisted going on celexa very strongly, but there was enormous pressure put on me to do so. The "industry" *wants* you to think that there is something fundamentally wrong with your brain, but in 99% of cases there is no organic disease whatsoever. But after you take these poisons, who knows what they do to the brain.Nezirov> I will agree with you that the medications are overprescribed. And I also agree with you that many people can get the raw end of the stick, when doctors don't listen to their patients.
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> The DSM is not the reason that so many people are on meds these days. It's partly due to the drug companies advertising the meds on TV (which should not be allowed IMO) and its partly due to ourselves. We want perfect lives, and when things are less than perfect we think that things are wrong, we think that we are abnormal, and that there is something wrong with us. Its *our* fault that we are willing to work 80 hours a week, and stress ourselves to suicidal, just to get more money, status etc.
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> We also want fast results. Sure, eating right, exercising, and choosing a less stressfull job would probably help 50 % of "mental illness" out there. But we want to keep our job, sit on the couch and eat garbage, and feel better overnight.
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> Depression is a signal. But in the end it is our fault for wanting our cake, and to eat it too.
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Posted by flmm on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:30
In reply to Re: personally i hope people listen to him..., posted by Nezirov on July 1, 2005, at 19:59:05
Dream on Dr. Nezerov, you need medication too!
Posted by Nezirov on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:30
In reply to Re: personally i hope people listen to him..., posted by flmm on July 1, 2005, at 21:12:10
> Dream on Dr. Nezerov, you need medication too!
No I don't. I've been off all medications for over two years now, and I'm doing just fine, thanks.
It seems like you need a medication change though, because I'm starting to get the feeling I'm being stalked. When's your next appointment? D'ya think you could get in sooner?Nezirov
Posted by linkadge on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:31
In reply to Re: personally i hope people listen to him..., posted by Nezirov on July 1, 2005, at 21:23:16
I don't mean this in a facetious way at all. I am just wondering what you are here for, if you have no intentions of ever touching a psychiatric med again so long as you live ?
Linkadge
Posted by linkadge on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:31
In reply to personally i hope people listen to him..., posted by iforgotmypassword on July 1, 2005, at 6:10:44
Scientology approaches it the wrong way. Anyone can raise a flag.
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Posted by flmm on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:31
In reply to Re: personally i hope people listen to him..., posted by linkadge on July 1, 2005, at 21:28:06
I am not stalking Nez, but paranoia is a "symptom"!
Posted by Nezirov on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:31
In reply to Why'd you come to this board ? » Nezirov, posted by linkadge on July 1, 2005, at 21:26:59
I came here to advertize my SSRI sexual side effects group on Yahoo and then got caught up in the discussions that ensued. I don't mean this in a facetious way either, but do you think you will be on meds for the rest of your life?
> I don't mean this in a facetious way at all. I am just wondering what you are here for, if you have no intentions of ever touching a psychiatric med again so long as you live ?
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Posted by Nezirov on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:31
In reply to Re: personally i hope people listen to him..., posted by flmm on July 1, 2005, at 21:31:24
> I am not stalking Nez, but paranoia is a "symptom"!
It's not my fault that you have paranoia. As I said, try to get a sooner appointment.
Posted by sleepygirl on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:31
In reply to Re: personally i hope people listen to him..., posted by flmm on July 1, 2005, at 21:31:24
Posted by flmm on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:31
In reply to Re: Why'd you come to this board ?, posted by Nezirov on July 1, 2005, at 21:36:02
Hey Nez, you remind me of Tom Cruise. He is clearly manic depressive, and in complete denial!
Posted by flmm on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:31
In reply to Re: Why'd you come to this board ?, posted by flmm on July 1, 2005, at 21:39:51
Ya, sellin bunk!
Posted by Nezirov on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:31
In reply to Re: No, Nez is just a salesman, posted by flmm on July 1, 2005, at 21:42:26
> Ya, sellin bunk!
I'm not selling anything. Seems like you're having delusions now in addition to the paranoia and stalking tendencies. It's worse for you than I thought...Nezirov.
Posted by Nezirov on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:31
In reply to Re: Why'd you come to this board ?, posted by flmm on July 1, 2005, at 21:39:51
> Hey Nez, you remind me of Tom Cruise. He is clearly manic depressive, and in complete denial!
Why do you think Tom Cruise is manic depressive?
Posted by Nezirov on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:32
In reply to Re: Why'd you come to this board ?, posted by flmm on July 1, 2005, at 21:39:51
> Hey Nez, you remind me of Tom Cruise. He is clearly manic depressive, and in complete denial!
Please elaborate. keep posting! This is entertaining...
Posted by sleepygirl on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:32
In reply to Re: Why'd you come to this board ?, posted by Nezirov on July 1, 2005, at 21:46:04
Posted by Nezirov on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:32
In reply to perhaps it's your combativeness? (nm), posted by sleepygirl on July 1, 2005, at 21:47:21
Do you like that?
Posted by sleepygirl on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:32
In reply to Re: perhaps it's your combativeness?, posted by Nezirov on July 1, 2005, at 21:49:59
Posted by Nezirov on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:32
In reply to or hypersexuality!! (nm), posted by sleepygirl on July 1, 2005, at 21:51:10
Well, you were the one who said I might be Tom Cruise (not that all women fancy him, of course)...
Posted by flmm on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:32
In reply to Re: Why'd you come to this board ?, posted by Nezirov on July 1, 2005, at 21:46:04
It is a combination of the combativeness and denial of his symptoms. Nez so desperately wants to be "Normal" he can't stop telling the world how "Normal" he is. This is a threat to his world in that he is afraid of his "true" nature.
Posted by sleepygirl on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:32
In reply to Re: or hypersexuality!!, posted by Nezirov on July 1, 2005, at 21:54:05
You are interesting you know, but why the interest really in the meds?
Posted by Nezirov on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:32
In reply to Re: Why'd you come to this board ?, posted by flmm on July 1, 2005, at 21:54:26
Is that the best you can do? Where are all of these posts of me proclaiming "I'm normal"?
Go back and check, though I know it's difficult for somebody like you who is delusional. On the contrary, you devoted a whole post to stating that you absolutely required medication.N
> It is a combination of the combativeness and denial of his symptoms. Nez so desperately wants to be "Normal" he can't stop telling the world how "Normal" he is. This is a threat to his world in that he is afraid of his "true" nature.
Posted by flmm on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:32
In reply to Re: Why'd you come to this board ?, posted by Nezirov on July 1, 2005, at 21:58:41
Just jerkin yer chain Nez. I am done! See ya around. Good luck stayin "Normal"
Posted by Nezirov on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:33
In reply to Re: or hypersexuality!!, posted by sleepygirl on July 1, 2005, at 21:55:26
> You are interesting you know, but why the interest really in the meds?
Thanks. I think these meds are much more powerful than most people realize. And ultimately detrimental to long-term health, mental and otheriwse.
And since I've been adversely affected by them (long-term loss of sex drive), I feel an ethical responsibility to point out the potential dangers of these drugs to others.N
Posted by sleepygirl on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:33
In reply to Re: or hypersexuality!!, posted by Nezirov on July 1, 2005, at 22:23:34
OK, as long as you're being altruistic, but you know people can get terribly offended about this right? It's not always fun to feel like you have to take a psychotropic med.
Posted by Nezirov on July 2, 2005, at 0:55:33
In reply to Re: or hypersexuality!!, posted by sleepygirl on July 1, 2005, at 22:28:45
> OK, as long as you're being altruistic, but you know people can get terribly offended about this right? It's not always fun to feel like you have to take a psychotropic med.
I understand that it's not fun. I'm just saying that it's not always necessary to take these drugs, and quite often they can make things worse long-term. The drug companies and the psychiatric profession have an obvious conflict of interest in helping people solve their problems. They *want* people on drugs long-term. But this, IMO, is a symptom of the much larger problem of the way sociey is today, which is ultra-competitive, unsympathetic, uncaring, selfish, and too focused on individual "success" (whatever that means) than feeling happy, and good about yourself.
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