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Posted by curtm on May 11, 2006, at 9:11:01
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Posted by curtm on May 11, 2006, at 9:12:01
In reply to My 50th Anniversary today (nm), posted by curtm on May 11, 2006, at 9:11:01
Posted by saturn on May 13, 2006, at 23:47:50
In reply to Actually my 5th but feels like 50 (nm), posted by curtm on May 11, 2006, at 9:12:01
Congratulations!! May I ask yer and her ages and how it's all going in general?
Make beautiful times between 5 and 50. But then no reason to stop there either.
I hope you have a kind, peaceful, beautiful experiences. Sh*t always gets stuck somewhere but walk on it and enjoy your lives as mucha as possible. Love one another.
Posted by curtm on May 14, 2006, at 11:07:04
In reply to Re: Actually my 5th but feels like 50 » curtm, posted by saturn on May 13, 2006, at 23:47:50
Hey Saturn,
My wife and I are both 36. We have been married 5 yrs. We have both been married before (5 years each.) Hmmmmm, 5 yrs? I see a pattern here.
She had two boys from her previous marriage. I had none. Well as "luck" would have it, we got pregnant and I felt confident enough in our relationship to tie the knot.
I'm offering more information than you were asking...sorry
Of course my life was in for some major changes. From single, free-spirited, chase girls, drink beer, eat thick steaks every night, party late, sleep in. Now I would have to learn some responsibility and relationship skills again.
I wasn't very good at that the first wife around. That is most likely why she divorced me. She just "wasn't in love" with her hub and left. I nearly got divorced the second time too, when my wife realized all the co-dependence and addiction was more of a problem than she bargained for.
Se stuck it out just long enough for me to start straightening up. Maybe she does like me? Things are going a lot better now, but I still have a lot of trust to earn back.
Now I just need to get my BP mood disorder under control. It seemed to surface when I finally quit medicating with stimulants. Already taked your ear off enough, so I guess I'll leave off there. Thanks for asking about us though.
curtm
PS Step-parenting is a whole different challenge in itself! Ugh!
Posted by saturn on May 14, 2006, at 12:40:00
In reply to Re: Actually my 5th but feels like 50 » saturn, posted by curtm on May 14, 2006, at 11:07:04
> Hey Saturn,
> I'm offering more information than you were asking...sorry
Not at all. I'm interested.
> Now I just need to get my BP mood disorder under control. It seemed to surface when I finally quit medicating with stimulants. Already taked your ear off enough, so I guess I'll leave off there. Thanks for asking about us though.You're welcome. I'm struggling with getting psych stuff under wraps myself...mainly ADHD and sleep problems. Sounds like on the whole you're in the right direction though.
> PS Step-parenting is a whole different challenge in itself! Ugh!I can only imagine! But you seem to have a good mindset so I'm sure you'll do fine. Easier said than done--I realize ;)
Take care and thanks for sharing.
Regards,
Sat
Posted by Kath on June 18, 2006, at 10:42:57
In reply to Re: Actually my 5th but feels like 50 » saturn, posted by curtm on May 14, 2006, at 11:07:04
Happy Anniversary & congrats for being in the process of looking at yourself & dealing with stuff.
Kath
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