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Posted by lynn971 on November 19, 2005, at 3:25:25
My husband has been very ugly to me lately. He says that I need to stop leaving things hanging around. I try. I see about my two children, my little cousin who lost his mom, I teach, and I have fatique. I try. I get so tired that my bones hurt. I wake up well after the alarm clock rings in the morning. I am usually running late. Sometimes I take an outfit out and decide not to wear it, I leave it on the bed because by now I will be late.
He is just really ugly to me. I feel like driving off and never coming back home. If it were not for my children, I think I would. I would just ride and ride and ride, and not care what happens. Just ride. Flip everything. Flip this crazy world. Flip lexapro, prozac, and all the other things.I quit smoking a year ago. Hey what the hell, maybe I should smoke.
I am tire of trying. I am tired of living. I am tired of being tired. I am tired of the depression. Dont worry, I wont kill myself, I have kids to raise.
Posted by alexandra_k on November 19, 2005, at 3:25:25
In reply to I cannot do it....., posted by lynn971 on November 18, 2005, at 20:04:50
((((lynn))))))
i've been known to be a messy little bugger at times too...
sigh.
i'm sorry your husband isn't more understanding.
Posted by wildcard on November 19, 2005, at 3:25:26
In reply to I cannot do it....., posted by lynn971 on November 18, 2005, at 20:04:50
You are a wonderful person and I admire all that you do. Sometimes I wish I could get in the truck and just keep driving too. I hate that you're having one of those days. I hope tomorrow is better and you know I am always here! If you ever do start that drive, let me know and we can be *Thelma and Louise* for a few..lol! I love ya girl ; )
Posted by wildcard on November 19, 2005, at 3:25:26
In reply to Hang in there » lynn971, posted by wildcard on November 18, 2005, at 21:12:11
~If it would make you feel better, take every piece of clothing out of your closet and make a huge mess! Call me first though so I can get there in time to help you clean up ; )
Posted by Deneb on November 19, 2005, at 3:25:26
In reply to I cannot do it....., posted by lynn971 on November 18, 2005, at 20:04:50
((((((((lynn)))))))))))
Is there any way you could change your world without "flipping" everything? Maybe a change is all you need...a change to get out of a rut. Can you take a little vacation?
Deneb
Posted by TexasChic on November 21, 2005, at 16:59:52
In reply to Re: I cannot do it..... » lynn971, posted by Deneb on November 18, 2005, at 21:40:49
I would have to question why this bothers him so much. Its a pretty common thing, and certainly nothing to get mad about. Is there some way you can ask him, in an non-confrontational way, why this bothers him so much? He may think you're doing it on purpose to annoy him, you never know!
-T
Posted by spriggy on November 21, 2005, at 22:47:46
In reply to you read my mind (nm) » Toph, posted by 10derHeart on November 20, 2005, at 0:16:21
I think you need to sit down and tell him how horrible he makes you feel when he does that.
You are a great woman, wife, mom, Christian, friend, etc.. I know it- I can tell!
He is lucky to have you- maybe he needs to be "reminded" of that!
Sometimes, we so easily take each other for granted in marriage.... and occasionally, a "wake up" call is not a bad thing!
I hope you feel better soon!
Ps. And I'm with you- to hell with this depression crap. ( yes, I actually said that)
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