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Posted by sunnydays on March 3, 2008, at 17:27:59
I hate being attached to my T. He had to reschedule our session this week so it's almost a week between sessions (normally I see him twice a week). He forgot to mention it at our last session, so he emailed me to reschedule. And we've got a session, but they're so far apart and I'm going home right after that for a week for break. And I really wanted to see him tomorrow. I asked him if he could call me before our session because I wanted to talk to him about the group situation before group, and he said to give him some times, so I did, but it's been a whole two hours and I haven't heard back from him. So I don't know when he's going to call.
And attachment hurts. Because I've probably cried for an hour and a half already today about this, and the tears are still just one thought away from coming back. Why do I get so upset about the stupidest stuff? I just am so afraid he's going to abandon me and I'm overwhelmed with group and going home and everything.
Uggh. Tonight might end up being a Xanax night.
sunnydays
Posted by krycek on March 3, 2008, at 19:13:16
In reply to attachment hurts :(, posted by sunnydays on March 3, 2008, at 17:27:59
> I hate being attached to my T. He had to reschedule our session this week so it's almost a week between sessions (normally I see him twice a week). He forgot to mention it at our last session, so he emailed me to reschedule. And we've got a session, but they're so far apart and I'm going home right after that for a week for break. And I really wanted to see him tomorrow. I asked him if he could call me before our session because I wanted to talk to him about the group situation before group, and he said to give him some times, so I did, but it's been a whole two hours and I haven't heard back from him. So I don't know when he's going to call.
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> And attachment hurts. Because I've probably cried for an hour and a half already today about this, and the tears are still just one thought away from coming back. Why do I get so upset about the stupidest stuff? I just am so afraid he's going to abandon me and I'm overwhelmed with group and going home and everything.
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> Uggh. Tonight might end up being a Xanax night.
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> sunnydaysI'm sorry you're hurting. I hope he calls you back, but if not, I hope group goes easy. It's not stupid stuff. I am desperate to talk to my T too, but I don't see him for another week.
If it's a xanax night, so be it...I hope you get some relief.
-krycek
Posted by sunnydays on March 3, 2008, at 22:59:45
In reply to attachment hurts :(, posted by sunnydays on March 3, 2008, at 17:27:59
:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
I hurt so much, and it's such a little thing, but I HURT.
sunnydays
Posted by krycek on March 4, 2008, at 7:50:34
In reply to Re: attachment hurts :(, posted by sunnydays on March 3, 2008, at 22:59:45
> :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
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> I hurt so much, and it's such a little thing, but I HURT.
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> sunnydaysI understand, it might be a 'little' thing but it's a big thing to you. I just hope you were able to get some good rest last night, and can face the day in a new light.
Big hugs,
krycek
Posted by sunnydays on March 4, 2008, at 12:05:32
In reply to Re: attachment hurts :(, posted by krycek on March 4, 2008, at 7:50:34
Thank you. My T actually called this morning and his meeting got cancelled, so we got to meet at the normal time. We talked about how upset I was and about the group. :) It was good.
sunnydays
Posted by DAisym on March 4, 2008, at 19:57:07
In reply to Re: attachment hurts :(, posted by sunnydays on March 4, 2008, at 12:05:32
Hurts yes - think of it as growing pain.
I'm glad you were able to see him. I hope you can carry him with you too. Learning that is super hard, isn't it?
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