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Posted by gazo on May 25, 2007, at 16:44:44
ok, i suck.. you're all right.. i can't leave, i am addicted. So it's bad news for babble that i am back but good news for me. i forewarn you all that i am in a state of "me me me!" which is why i felt i should leave... didn't/don't feel that is good in a community.
as per usual my life is chaos but i don't know any different anyway. Can't/won't post things about my home situation cept in chat.. i regret posting some stuff already. In fact, there's a lot going on i can't post because it's too identifying... crap.
9 days until my T comes back.. and i am not saying i am all cured and don't need to be in therapy. That's be a lie.. BUT i am in a good place in a lot of ways.. some of the bad things i dreaded didn't happen.. some stuff i couldn't predict went as well as it could have.. lots of sh*t in my world but i am not in as bad a crisis.. so i am seriously wondering if being in therapy is the best idea right now. i mean, if i am doing ok - ie not flipping out - shouldn't i wait? Before he went i was like a kid, need need need... now i am at least to my knees.
plus there's the whole disconnect and trust thing. i'll be back to where we were weeks and weeks ago. i listen to the voicemail only rarely because it doesn't have *any* emotion for me now.. he might as well been the cable guy leaving a message. It's surreal, like from a different world from the one i am in.. it's always like that when...well, when my home situation is like it is right now. Two different worlds. WIth T away during this past week he is in one universe and my probs are in another. Even if i can get back into that world i don't know how to connect with the probs and feelings from this one..
i hope you guys are in chat tonight.. i have some big dilemmas job-related and i need to get some feedback.
Posted by Happyflower on May 25, 2007, at 17:51:23
In reply to bad for babble... good for me, posted by gazo on May 25, 2007, at 16:44:44
Hey Gazo,
I think it is okay to need need need! You fit in with most of us. I have also seen where you help help help too. Babblers accept what you need and what you can give no matter if it is unbalenced at times. We are all like this gazo. trust me.
Posted by gazo on May 25, 2007, at 18:40:08
In reply to Re: bad for babble... good for me, posted by Happyflower on May 25, 2007, at 17:51:23
> Hey Gazo,
>
> I think it is okay to need need need! You fit in with most of us. I have also seen where you help help help too. Babblers accept what you need and what you can give no matter if it is unbalenced at times. We are all like this gazo. trust me.hahaha oh yeah, unbalanced... that is definitely me ;o)
Posted by Happyflower on May 25, 2007, at 18:55:46
In reply to Re: bad for babble... good for me, posted by gazo on May 25, 2007, at 18:40:08
I didn't mean mentally unbalanced, gazo, I hope you know that. A lot of us go through spurts of supporting only, getting support only , or doing both. It will change from week to week at least it did for me. So don't worry! ;-)
Posted by Happyflower on May 25, 2007, at 19:05:54
In reply to Re: bad for babble... good for me » gazo, posted by Happyflower on May 25, 2007, at 18:55:46
I just wanted to say you are okay Gazo just the way your are! ;-)
Posted by Wittgenstein on May 25, 2007, at 20:08:55
In reply to Re: bad for babble... good for me, posted by Happyflower on May 25, 2007, at 19:05:54
Hey Gazo! Glad to see you're back.
Thanks for the babble-mails - your advice was spot on :)
Libby
Posted by Phillipa on May 26, 2007, at 11:42:58
In reply to Re: bad for babble... good for me, posted by Wittgenstein on May 25, 2007, at 20:08:55
Hi Gazo just giving some support as I need it myself. Love Phillipa ps stick with the therapist
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