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Posted by Happyflower on March 30, 2007, at 17:32:05
I worked out on the eliptical like crazy going 7MPH for 30 min,burned 320 calories, and went to my physical therapy for my neck and back.
I took my kids to the zoo and out for lunch. Then we went and bought some pansies to plant, and some new weird sedums for inside my house.
Plus today at Weight Watchers I lost another 2 1/2 lbs, 4 1/2 total for 2 weeks, so that I am happy about. I met my T friend their and she invited me to her house for lunch with her other friends, but I couldn't go since i promised my kids a day of fun since it was so nice. She gave me a real hug and it felt so nice. I haven't had a hug in a long time and I needed one.
So I kept myself busy so I don't think about my T, I still did, but I am okay. Getting outside felt good since it was 70 today. I don't know what kind of reaction I will get from my T when I see him at the gym. I hope he isn't cold to me or mad at me.
I think I sort of paniced last night when I realized what I have done. Yes, I am running away from my T , but I need to right now. I need some space. I didn't tell him I was quiting, just not coming to my next appointment. I have never missed an appointment in 2 years, so I hope it isn't a big deal to my T. Thanks everyone for you support, I am exhausted today and need to lay down for awhile. ((((babblers))))
Posted by antigua on March 30, 2007, at 18:32:40
In reply to Feeling better today, posted by Happyflower on March 30, 2007, at 17:32:05
Glad you're feeling better today. I'm coming to the close of my therapy, too (no rush, I can take as long as I like), but I had to post because I did the same thing you did, but a couple of weeks ago. I called my T and told her I needed a break. Money was my excuse, but it was also true: I needed a break. I'm learning things on my own; she has taught me well and I need to start doing things myself. She took it wrong, thought I was quitting, but I haven't. I've been back several times, but I do recognize that I was running away; I wanted to leave her before she left me. We still have a main issue to work out--a mother thing between her and I (my mother was no help to me with csa when I was a child) and she thinks I'm pushing her away because I think she can't help. I don't know if she can help, but for me (I'm not saying you at all), I realized I was running away. But I had good reasons, too, and I stand by them.
He will understand. He's supposed to understand. It's like the little kid who holds on close and then pulls away until gradually he learns to be on his own. It's still ups and downs, but you're definitely on the up side!
take care,
antigua
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 30, 2007, at 19:02:16
In reply to Feeling better today, posted by Happyflower on March 30, 2007, at 17:32:05
Posted by gazo on March 31, 2007, at 10:00:55
In reply to Feeling better today, posted by Happyflower on March 30, 2007, at 17:32:05
you are doing so well for yourself :o) be very proud.
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