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Posted by happyflower on September 2, 2006, at 15:09:29
I know my T is going to ask me about this on Tuedsay because I brought it up when my session was done last time. I had to add one last zinger, you know. LOL
I don't think I love my allergist, he is cute, but I just don't like him all that much. What he is doing is wrong, what my DH was/is doing is wrong, so why should I lower myself to their level?
Beside I am way too busy to have another relationship and I don't want a guy to interfer with me trying to better my life (college) I did that before and now I regret that. I need to take care of me first, my sex life will have to be put on hold for now. What I need is love and someday this happyflower will find it. But right now I need to put down some stronger roots to hold all that love when it someday comes my way. Don't you think I will be a prettier flower when I have stronger roots?
In my Abnormal Pysch class we learned that one of the components for self esteem is realizing that nobody completes you . You have to be happy with yourself, nobody can make you happy. So I am going to complete myself. Yup, I am going to try.I am so happy about being in the orchestra, I can't wait for rehearsal. Playing with an orchestra really changes me, it is so orgasmic, you really feel the music, the vibrations, the beauty. It is hard to explain, but I feel it inside. I need to play music, I think I really do. My T is right, there IS something about me playing. He saw it change me, and now I think I can believe him. This was meant to be. ;-)
Posted by muffled on September 2, 2006, at 18:43:29
In reply to Deceided not to have an affair, posted by happyflower on September 2, 2006, at 15:09:29
Posted by Dinah on September 2, 2006, at 22:06:09
In reply to Deceided not to have an affair, posted by happyflower on September 2, 2006, at 15:09:29
You sound really grounded and happy. :)
Posted by Tabitha on September 3, 2006, at 16:36:19
In reply to Deceided not to have an affair, posted by happyflower on September 2, 2006, at 15:09:29
You're filling your life with good things right now-- school, orchestra, therapy. Those things are real nourishment. An unhealthy romance is just junk food. Way to go, Happy!
Posted by happyflower on September 4, 2006, at 17:07:33
In reply to Re: Deceided not to have an affair, posted by Tabitha on September 3, 2006, at 16:36:19
Hey thanks Tabitha,
I believe I am making the right decision. I need more than a fling, and anything else, I don't have time for or feel right about. Thanks for your reply!
Posted by happyflower on September 4, 2006, at 17:08:28
In reply to Re: Deceided not to have an affair » happyflower, posted by Dinah on September 2, 2006, at 22:06:09
> You sound really grounded and happy. :)
I am trying, I am trying, I am trying, I think I can, I think I can, etc.
Thanks Dinah! :-) (wish babble had icons)
Posted by happyflower on September 4, 2006, at 17:08:55
In reply to Your the coolest HF :-) (nm) » happyflower, posted by muffled on September 2, 2006, at 18:43:29
Posted by Poet on September 4, 2006, at 17:37:51
In reply to Deceided not to have an affair, posted by happyflower on September 2, 2006, at 15:09:29
Hi BrightHappyflower,
I added bright because you're
smart
determined
talented
decisiveYou are doing great. Maybe for your class you can do a paper on music and self esteem.
Poet
Posted by happyflower on September 4, 2006, at 17:41:29
In reply to Re: Deceided not to have an affair » happyflower, posted by Poet on September 4, 2006, at 17:37:51
Thanks Poet! Can I be psychodelic (can't spell it) flower ? LOL
Posted by happyflower on September 4, 2006, at 17:44:28
In reply to Re: Deceided not to have an affair » Poet, posted by happyflower on September 4, 2006, at 17:41:29
Posted by susan47 on September 4, 2006, at 20:41:53
In reply to Re: Deceided not to have an affair » Poet, posted by happyflower on September 4, 2006, at 17:41:29
Psychedelic, I think ... my thinking's a bit out of whack, still, sometimes .. and spelling, well it's no longer my strong forte .. nor is using computer language options or that 'e' .. oh, sorry what the heck. Happyflower you ARE AWESOME AND THE COOLEST BABE THIS SIDE OF MANHATTAN.
Whatever that means.
Just, I've seen you develop into who you're meant to be and that is the most wonderful sight imaginable! Sweet dreams.
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