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Posted by happyflower on September 3, 2006, at 16:55:24
I think I will always be infatuated with my T . Today was the first time I saw him since my appointment almost 2 weeks ago, and something comes over me when I see him. I just can't stop smiling, there is like this brightness that surrounds him. He is just so dang cute. Will I ever get over this?
He actually gave me a genuine smile today when he saw me and I couldn't help to smile. Then I said to him "I see you are survived" (his colonosopy 1 week ago). He laughed and said yes. Then I said "Are you all clean now?" He said "I am now".
What a conversation to have at the gym. LOL Does infatuation ever go away? When I see him, I swear I feel 100lbs lighter and the world seems so much brighter. Am I truly nuts? The vibes between us are so insane. I believe the feelings are mutual, but geeze whiz, I feel so foolish sometimes.
Posted by madeline on September 3, 2006, at 18:26:51
In reply to I just can't help it, posted by happyflower on September 3, 2006, at 16:55:24
For me, the infatuation went away when I found someone in real life to love (no it's not the younger guy).
Now I am incredible grateful to my T for letting my love him first.
I would advise that you just let these good feeling wash over you and remind you how good loving someone can be.
I think loving your T is the safest love of all, it's like loving a pet that can talk to you.
Posted by happyflower on September 4, 2006, at 17:48:42
In reply to Re: I just can't help it, posted by madeline on September 3, 2006, at 18:26:51
Thanks Maddie,
I guess I could be in love, I try to deny it to myself, but dang it , it keep biting me in the butt. LOL
Yeah, love feels good, I wish somebody loved me like that, I wish somebody feels lightended to be around me. Someday............
Glad you are doing well , in love, nothing is better than that. :-)
Posted by susan47 on September 4, 2006, at 21:00:27
In reply to Re: I just can't help it » madeline, posted by happyflower on September 4, 2006, at 17:48:42
Well, there I go again, mopping up the tears from the keyboard. I know Exactly what you're talking about, the lovely feeling of .. infatuation, I remember it well, really well. So much, and I lost so much, and he lost and he doesn't even effing know it because he was completely blind to the pain he caused, was causing, does cause and I just have to effing mop it up .. but God I'm happy for you, Happyflower because you have something so special that every client deserves and every friend who ever existed for another friend, in true loving relationship .. you have that, SHOW IT OFF GIRL AND KEEP IT UP (hahahaha just kiddin', you know ;). You do. I know you know ... you're deep, a deep, loving woman who feels her power in life, in love, in relationship, and your T helped you find that and I'll bet on a really deep level, he let you find it for him in some way too. I'll bet that happens to T's when they have a good client/t relationship. Which would make life awesome.
Bad sometimes, but we take the good with the bad, and you took enough bad now to really DIG INTO THE GOOD, god you're playing in a real Orchestra, you lucky doll. Wow. Omigosh, one day I'm going to come hear you play.
Posted by happyflower on September 7, 2006, at 18:43:08
In reply to Re: I just can't help it » happyflower, posted by susan47 on September 4, 2006, at 21:00:27
Wow Susan,
You sure how know how to make a girl smile. Thanks! ;-)
I think my feelings run kinda deep, I have always said that I have feelings for him that I have only had in life with a select few, like my grandma and an old friend. It is hard to explain, and I have tried even to my T, but he seems to dismiss that. But the connection is there, in the room like a big pink elephant.Just this last session we found out that we both have had the same neuro surgeon, his grandfather played the trumpet, and my Abnormal Pysch professior (who is also a T), he knows very well, he didn't say how he knows him, usually he says, so it makes me wonder if it is HIS T. LOL He said not to say anything bad about him, LOL. But the coincedenses in our lives is truly amazing. It is insane, really. I don't know if I can ever say goodbye, it feels like a funeral to me.
Posted by susan47 on September 9, 2006, at 0:14:02
In reply to Re: I just can't help it » susan47, posted by happyflower on September 7, 2006, at 18:43:08
Maybe it's just better for him not to focus on himself, he might be doing that if he took your feelings for him in a different way, it might make the focus all wrong and bring tension into the relationship, and even though it would be exciting, it would ruin your therapy because then it wouldn't be therapy anymore it'd be something else. So, good on him and good on you lovey, you're a lucky lucky girl, because you get to play with ideas and feelings that can stay with you for as long as you want. You get to feel really good about yourself, and him, and I'll bet that moves you forward like a crazy beautiful rocket .. look what's already changing for you!!
> Just this last session we found out that we both have had the same neuro surgeon, his grandfather played the trumpet, and my Abnormal Pysch professior (who is also a T), he knows very well, he didn't say how he knows him, usually he says, so it makes me wonder if it is HIS T. LOL He said not to say anything bad about him, LOL. But the coincedenses in our lives is truly amazing. It is insane, really. I don't know if I can ever say goodbye, it feels like a funeral to me.
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You don't have to say good-bye, do you? I mean, is this someone you could never send a Christmas card to, at the office, or a recent photo just to let him know how you are, or the program of an upcoming performance, (he might even attend, might someday tell you how much he enjoyed the performance). I mean, it's not like you're star-crossed lovers who hate each other or anything.Hell, you're not divorced.
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