Posted by susan47 on September 9, 2006, at 0:14:02
In reply to Re: I just can't help it » susan47, posted by happyflower on September 7, 2006, at 18:43:08
Maybe it's just better for him not to focus on himself, he might be doing that if he took your feelings for him in a different way, it might make the focus all wrong and bring tension into the relationship, and even though it would be exciting, it would ruin your therapy because then it wouldn't be therapy anymore it'd be something else. So, good on him and good on you lovey, you're a lucky lucky girl, because you get to play with ideas and feelings that can stay with you for as long as you want. You get to feel really good about yourself, and him, and I'll bet that moves you forward like a crazy beautiful rocket .. look what's already changing for you!!
> Just this last session we found out that we both have had the same neuro surgeon, his grandfather played the trumpet, and my Abnormal Pysch professior (who is also a T), he knows very well, he didn't say how he knows him, usually he says, so it makes me wonder if it is HIS T. LOL He said not to say anything bad about him, LOL. But the coincedenses in our lives is truly amazing. It is insane, really. I don't know if I can ever say goodbye, it feels like a funeral to me.
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You don't have to say good-bye, do you? I mean, is this someone you could never send a Christmas card to, at the office, or a recent photo just to let him know how you are, or the program of an upcoming performance, (he might even attend, might someday tell you how much he enjoyed the performance). I mean, it's not like you're star-crossed lovers who hate each other or anything.Hell, you're not divorced.
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