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Posted by happyflower on June 16, 2006, at 19:56:19
Just thinking of you , hope you are okay.
Posted by scentedgarden on June 17, 2006, at 9:37:14
In reply to Has anyone heard from shrinking violet lately?, posted by happyflower on June 16, 2006, at 19:56:19
Hi Happyflower remember me? You asked if I was okay a few days ago and I replied to you.
just thought you'd reply back that's all.
I wasn't going to say any more about it, i was mulling things over, but, when i saw your post I thought you sounded like you really cared, so i opened up to you.
I know i got a bit wacky as i was very tired and my thinking was jumping about all over the place.
So, I apologise if that put you off replying -
still i have been hoping every day for amessage back from you since i did open up quite alot i felt online, and you seem to not give a s*it anymore. sorry, but surely you can see thats how it looks from my angle.
I thought you were very kind and caring happyflower, so maybe you just forgot about me. But in future when you ask someone how they're doing or similar, please don't just dump them because you don't like what they posted, and if you've forgotten about them, then you cant have really cared that much to start with.
Sorry but that how it looks from here and i'm having a hard time enough as it is right now without feeling ignored on here too.
I hope you don't mind me being straight about this with you, I know you have your own probs going on too right now, we all have thats why we'er on this website!
I'm just saying I felt very vulnerable telling you that stuff and you appear to just want to totally blow me off and ignore me.
So, maybe you can guess how i feel about that?
You know loads of people on here and have been posting for a year right, so I can see how my posts can be dull and boring if i'm asking questions about things that you've already gone through in your own life before, so i'm sorry if my questions put you off. Sorry I didn't give you the reply i should have given, maybe something like , "thx happyflower im okay, just tired and mulling stuff over that you said, you're words have been helpful and I will get back to you when I have made some descisions, or if I need any more help. Thanks again, from scentedgarden".
I should have said that and everything would have been fine, but, I went on and on, I know I did, and i guess maybe it was too much of a reply i gave to you. So, I guess I understand why you gave me a wide berth. It still hurts though, and, thats just how i feel about it.
Yours sincerely
scentedgarden
Posted by happyflower on June 17, 2006, at 12:22:36
In reply to Re: Has anyone heard from shrinking violet lately? » happyflower, posted by scentedgarden on June 17, 2006, at 9:37:14
Hi Scentedgarden,
I am truely sorry I haven't responded back to you, it had nothing to do with what you said or you , it was just my absent mindedness at the moment. I sent you a Babblemail.
Posted by shrinking violet on June 19, 2006, at 21:59:07
In reply to Has anyone heard from shrinking violet lately?, posted by happyflower on June 16, 2006, at 19:56:19
> Just thinking of you , hope you are okay.
(((((((happyflower)))))))
wow, i just came on here to check out the new postings and I see my "name"! Thank you!!
I'm ok I guess. It's hard to read/post/respond here sometimes b/c it triggers a lot of feelings about my former T that I'd rather not deal with. Some days are better than others, but she's always in the back of my mind, and most days I miss her terribly.
Plus I've been ill lately (sinus infection, they think. I hope that's all it is) so it makes doing things that much harder.
Thanks again for the post, it was very sweet, and it made me smile. :-D
take care,
sv
Posted by happyflower on June 20, 2006, at 15:18:33
In reply to Re: Has anyone heard from shrinking violet lately? » happyflower, posted by shrinking violet on June 19, 2006, at 21:59:07
I am glad you are okay, but sinus infections really feel bad. I get them all the time, especially around allergy season. Are you on some antibodics for it?
Are you thinking of seeing a new T ? I know I would miss my T if I had to terminate suddenly. I think it feels bad even if it isn't suddenly. Well I hope you feel better! :-)
Posted by shrinking violet on June 20, 2006, at 16:36:02
In reply to Re: Has anyone heard from shrinking violet lately?, posted by happyflower on June 20, 2006, at 15:18:33
> I am glad you are okay, but sinus infections really feel bad. I get them all the time, especially around allergy season. Are you on some antibodics for it?
>
> Are you thinking of seeing a new T ? I know I would miss my T if I had to terminate suddenly. I think it feels bad even if it isn't suddenly. Well I hope you feel better! :-)Thanks, it is very painful. I was given antibiotics at the ER, but I am hoping to get something else from my doctor tomorrow that might not upset my stomach further than it already is.
I do have a new T. I began seeing her last fall, a few months after ending with my previous T; I've seen the new T on and off since then. Right now I'm on an "off" period; it's difficult sometimes to go, for a lot of reasons.
Thanks again!
SV
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