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Posted by LegWarmers on February 12, 2006, at 17:35:52
Ugh! I have an uncanny knack for messing up everything!
Does anyone need help with ruining something? Im available!
And how do you tell someone, I can't do it? I can't do what you want me to do because I've already made a mess of it?!
I don't know what to do
Posted by LegWarmers on February 12, 2006, at 19:09:46
In reply to As bad as it gets, posted by LegWarmers on February 12, 2006, at 17:35:52
Posted by Damos on February 12, 2006, at 20:26:33
In reply to it really isn't, just felt like it (nm), posted by LegWarmers on February 12, 2006, at 19:09:46
Glad to hear it. Just sing-out if I can help in any way.
Was gonna say that usually a simple "I'm sorry, I stuffed up, what can I do to help fix it." is enough for most people.
(((((LegWarmers)))))
Posted by LegWarmers on February 12, 2006, at 21:19:04
In reply to Re: it really isn't, just felt like it » LegWarmers, posted by Damos on February 12, 2006, at 20:26:33
> Glad to hear it. Just sing-out if I can help in any way.
Trust me...you dont want to hear me sing ; )if you can even call it that.
> Was gonna say that usually a simple "I'm sorry, I stuffed up, what can I do to help fix it." is enough for most people.
>
> (((((LegWarmers)))))
Thank you, you're so sweet Damos
I don't know what Im going to do, I keep adding to my pile of things I need to fix. I need to go speak to a couple of people to sort it out.
Posted by muffled on February 12, 2006, at 22:51:06
In reply to Re: it really isn't, just felt like it » Damos, posted by LegWarmers on February 12, 2006, at 21:19:04
Bummmer LW. My my sh*t pile grows too :-(
Sometimes its just so hard to give a goddamn.
But we care about you here LW.
Take care you.
One frikken day at a time.
Muffled
Posted by sleepygirl on February 12, 2006, at 22:58:58
In reply to As bad as it gets, posted by LegWarmers on February 12, 2006, at 17:35:52
Hello there deary,
I'd never judge you so harshly you know.
We all have hard times, and need some help.
I hope someone can help with whatever it is.
I think you're awesome.
-all the best,
sleepygirl
Posted by LegWarmers on February 13, 2006, at 8:32:18
In reply to (((((((((((((Leg Warmers)))))))))) » LegWarmers, posted by muffled on February 12, 2006, at 22:51:06
> Bummmer LW. My my sh*t pile grows too :-(
> Sometimes its just so hard to give a goddamn.
> But we care about you here LW.
> Take care you.
> One frikken day at a time.
> MuffledThanks Muffled, Im trying. Gotta hate those piles!
Posted by LegWarmers on February 13, 2006, at 8:45:31
In reply to Re: As bad as it gets » LegWarmers, posted by sleepygirl on February 12, 2006, at 22:58:58
> Hello there deary,
Well, hello :)
> I'd never judge you so harshly you know.
> We all have hard times, and need some help.
> I hope someone can help with whatever it is.I might have some help, Im hoping today will be better. I do feel sometimes like I am judging myself accurately to how others judge me. Maybe Im impaired in that view...I don't know. But... thanks for saying that.
> I think you're awesome.
I think you are too! Thanks, Sleepy
LAtely, im blowing everything out of proportion, I see it now, I know that Im doing it but that is not helping me cognitively deal with it any better.
Posted by muffled on February 13, 2006, at 10:47:12
In reply to Re: As bad as it gets » sleepygirl, posted by LegWarmers on February 13, 2006, at 8:45:31
If I blowing everything out of proportion it helps me to write down whats in my head that I am saying.
Then I refute it on paper too.
Then I can SEE the words and read them over and over.
After awhile it seems to help. Takes some practice just to figger what I saying to myself thats getting me all upset in the first place....
Take care
Muffled
Posted by LegWarmers on February 13, 2006, at 11:15:56
In reply to Re: As bad as it gets, posted by muffled on February 13, 2006, at 10:47:12
> If I blowing everything out of proportion it helps me to write down whats in my head that I am saying.
> Then I refute it on paper too.
> Then I can SEE the words and read them over and over.
> After awhile it seems to help. Takes some practice just to figger what I saying to myself thats getting me all upset in the first place....Thats a really good idea! I know I need to do it too. I need to see for myself whats really going on.
Thanks muffy!
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