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Posted by Shadowplayers721 on August 11, 2004, at 0:38:39
I was reading a part of a book titled "Undoing Depression". This got my attention.
"...monkeys with a history of trauma in childhood are then subjected to stress--social isolation--as adults, they behave differently from normal monkeys. They act as if they are depressed--they are more passive, they cry, they rock themselves--and anxious--they engage in excessive self-grooming and other self-stimulating behaviors. If they are repeatedly subjected to the same stress annually, their behavior continues to deteriorate when compared to normal monkeys.
There are also changes in the brain. The deprieved monkeys, when isolated at six months, show changes in levels of cortisol and norepinephrine signifiantly different from those of normal monkeys under stress. At eighteen months, these changes are stronger, and serotonin levels are also significantly different.
These monkeys appear to be a good analogue for depression in human. Under normal circumstances, they look the same as other monkeys. When something goes wrong, however, they can't respond to the stress as well. With repeated stress, their ability to respond deteriorates. It's hard to escape the conclusion that it was the early childhood experience of deprivation that led to stereotypical troubled patterns of behavior in adult life that look like depression, and to the changes in brain functioning that are similiar to the brain functioning of depressed humans."
Note: These were Rhesus monkeys. There DNA is 95% similiar to human and they live in social groups similiar to humans as well.
Commentary from Shadowplayers....
(Read similiarities of myself in those paragraphs. I didn't like it one bit. No. No.)It appears that abuse literally changes one's brain chemistry. This both angers me and then explains things. About the anger, it was a reaction to knowing I am changed. I didn't make my brain change-the abuse caused it. It explains that while I look like everyone else, that I have a very low tolerance for stress. However, in every day situations, others expect the same of me as anyone else. Why? Because, I look like other human beings. Now, why don't those people stop saying, "Snap out of it" or "Just let go of your past, Shadows". Well, if they look at this study, it appears that I am changed from it.
Okay, now, what about therapy? How much can I change from therapy? I can't change from a three headed dragon slayer into a butterfly internally. I am what I am and I intend on accepting the differences. Maybe, I am a just a bird with different feathering hmmmm
Thoughts or feelings about these paragraphs anyone?
Posted by Dinah on August 11, 2004, at 1:16:31
In reply to This ruffled my feathers, but I am combing them, posted by Shadowplayers721 on August 11, 2004, at 0:38:39
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> Okay, now, what about therapy? How much can I change from therapy? I can't change from a three headed dragon slayer into a butterfly internally. I am what I am and I intend on accepting the differences. Maybe, I am a just a bird with different feathering hmmmm
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> Thoughts or feelings about these paragraphs anyone?Just my thoughts of course, for whatever they're worth. :)
As to whether therapy can change the brain itself, I think it's Pfinstegg who has some interesting studies relating to that. I'm not sure what to google, or I'd try to look up her old posts, but it sounds familiar.
But to a certain extent, I think we all have to accept who we are. Not just realize it, but truly accept it. Sometimes we bring concerns about my son to his pediatrician, and he fusses at us that my son is who he is. He's introverted and sensitive and those things are just fine. Don't try to make him into something that he's not. I think that hearing him say that about someone else, and someone I admire and respect as much as I admire and respect my son especially, gave me a bit of a shove towards self acceptance.
I have never suffered severe abuse, but whether through nature or nurture, I am who I am. I'll never be quite like the "normal" person, whatever that is. And that's ok. My happiness set point is probably a bit lower than a euthymic person, and that's ok too. I react very poorly to stress, and... well ok - I'd like to react better to stress. But I do accept that my emotional arousal is quick and slow to subside. Especially that darn adrenaline. I don't figure I'll ever change that, just work around it.
I dunno. That's just my take on it. And while it may *sound* pessimistic, it doesn't *feel* especially pessimistic.
Posted by AuntieMel on August 11, 2004, at 11:22:29
In reply to This ruffled my feathers, but I am combing them, posted by Shadowplayers721 on August 11, 2004, at 0:38:39
We are all swans that feel like ugly ducklings.
I can't give you any studies. I can only answer with (what I hope is) logic.
So we accept the premise that childhood abuse or neglect can cause the brain chemistry to change. Studies have shown that and I have no reason to disagree with them.
BUT we've also seen numerous cases where the brain can adjust to new realities. The person who loses eyesight develops more acute hearing. Injury damaged brains that can be retaught to be functional. Many other brain injuries that can be helped with *physical* therapy. Brains are just organs, and have an amazing ability to generate new cells where needed.
So, it's not really a stretch to think that psychotherapy can help the brain just as much as physical therapy.
Granted you can not change from a three-headed dragon to a butterfly. But you *can* change a caterpiller to a butterfly. It's called Growth.
Posted by Racer on August 11, 2004, at 14:48:08
In reply to Re: ruffled feathers » Shadowplayers721, posted by AuntieMel on August 11, 2004, at 11:22:29
That's my answer. I did suffer severe trauma as a child, both physical -- hit by a car when I was 4, with very severe injuries including skull fracture -- and emotional. Oh, yeah, and including sexual abuse, too, for that matter. And I have *agonized* over the question about whether I could ever "recover" from those traumas.
Now, this isn't to be misconstrued as anything like CBT, 'K? But when I'm less depressed and actually functioning in the world at something close to my optimal level, here's how I define my goal to myself: "I'm not ever going to have the same physiological brain function of someone who has never experienced trauma. I'm never going to lose the potential for the sort of reactivity that creates problems for me. My goal in therapy, as in life, is to maximize my functioning within my realistic limitations caused by the interaction of genetic susceptibility and childhood trauma."
In other words, if you consider "recovering" to mean wiping the slate clean so that you can experience life the way someone without either the genetic susceptibility or the trauma would, you're very likely to be disappointed. If, on the other hand, you define "recovery" as making the most of what you got, and finding more adaptive ways of handling stressful situations, and you modify -- not "reduce" but "modify" -- your expectations, you have a great chance of total success.
Here are two of my own, personal agonies related to this. First, I am interested in politics, and have always wanted to get more involved -- ie: run for office. Guess what? I've been involuntarily hospitalized for psychiatric problems! There goes that ambition. (Please -- we all know that that's the cold truth here, and I have learned to live with this. Please don't try to convince me to resurect that particular dream, 'K?) So, OK, I can't run for office, but there are plenty of other things I *can* do to satisfy the impulses behind that dream. I can work in non-profits that bring me into the political arena -- check. I can do my best to educate myself about the political issues that affect me and my community, and get involved either directly or indirectly -- check. I can write to my elected representatives, telling them my opinion on those issues with legislation pending -- check. You see? I may not manage my actual dream, but I can do a heck of a lot that comes awfully close. Shall I give up, because I can't have the cherry on top? Or shall I enjoy the ice cream that is available to me?
Second, I have always wanted children. This is much harder for me, so I won't say as much -- especially since it's still really unresolved. Aside from the physical side of it, I also worry a great deal about my emotional ability to rear a child. Would I be able to handle the stress? Could I maintain enough stability to provide a healthy enough environment? You know the sorts of questions, right? The closest I've come to an answer on this one, by the way, is that if a miracle occurred and I managed to carry a pregnancy to term, my child would have a mixture of good and bad in a mother that balanced out to being pretty similar to a lot of other children's. Sure, I suffer from severe depression. But I am aware of it, and do know that I need to be aware and get treatment for it. So, there's a bit of a balance there -- and it's sure better than someone who suffers depression and *doesn't* know about treatment, or doesn't believe in treatment. I get hyperreactive and anxious. And I have coping strategies that work for me when my depression is under control. Again -- a balance.
I guess I'm going on too much again. I hope that the basic point is clear, though. It's not an all or nothing proposition. As Dinah said, the outcome isn't a question of whether you're reset to 'normal', but whether you're better than you would be without treatment.
(Gee -- food for thought: my long post versus Dinah's single sentence... Some day I'll have to learn that skill...)
Posted by AuntieMel on August 11, 2004, at 16:35:13
In reply to Redefining definitions, posted by Racer on August 11, 2004, at 14:48:08
I would like to suggest that if everyone waited until they were emotionally (or financially) ready to have children there might be about 50 people on the planet.
My mom was severely depressed for years of my growing up. But I am very, very close to her and always have been.
Why? Because even in her worse moments I always knew that she loved me. And that's really all that counts to a kid.
Posted by fallsfall on August 11, 2004, at 17:01:16
In reply to Re: Emotionally ready for children » Racer, posted by AuntieMel on August 11, 2004, at 16:35:13
Thank you, AuntieMel,
I really needed to hear that. I do love my children very much. It is so nice to hear that that is what counts.
Posted by Ilene on August 11, 2004, at 18:19:12
In reply to This ruffled my feathers, but I am combing them, posted by Shadowplayers721 on August 11, 2004, at 0:38:39
Here's my $.02:
1) The kind of stress these monkeys were exposed is probably what would be termed *severe* child abuse in humans--you know, like being locked in a closed until puberty and never allowed to see another monkey. They never learned how to be proper monkeys.
2) Some of those monkeys probably did better than others.
3) We are not monkeys. The common ancestor of rhesus monkeys and humans lived *millions* of years ago. Forget about the 95% of DNA BS. It's probably not true, and even if it is, it's misleading.
4) On a personal note, when my meds have worked I've been an entirely different person. I think I'll always be susceptible to stress, though.
Posted by Ilene on August 11, 2004, at 18:21:14
In reply to This ruffled my feathers, but I am combing them, posted by Shadowplayers721 on August 11, 2004, at 0:38:39
Brain imaging studies have shown *positive* changes in people's brains due to therapy.
Posted by Pfinstegg on August 12, 2004, at 3:17:02
In reply to And another thing..., posted by Ilene on August 11, 2004, at 18:21:14
This is true. Since I noticed my name, I thought I'd like to chime in. When you do have sufficient childhood abuse so that your cortisol levels are elevated, your brain is going to change- become abnormal- and you are going to be much more susceptible to depression and over-reactivity to stress. It's painful to realize that- that something bad enough was done to you when you were an innocent child looking for love and safety that your brain has literally been damaged. I feel so sad that this happened to me- as everyone does here in varying degrees depending on their own circumstances.
But still, there is a LOT we can do to get our brains back more towards normal. The AD's that we presently have are not all that great (probably we'll have much better ones in ten years which can really restore our brains), The AD's, some more than others, do normalize our neurotransmitter levels to an extent, and do help our brains regrow neurons damaged by cortisol and other chemical present in excess when we have overactive HPA axes. There are definitely studies showing that long term psychotherapy- particularly the kind where the relationship between client and therapist is given the most importance- does help our brains become more normal physiologically. I can't find them right now, but I'll try to soon. Now that functional MRIs and other new imaging studies are coming into use, they show how much a combination of therapy and medication can help- they aren't used routinely, as they are so expensive- and more of a research tool at present, but I think we're going to learn a lot from them in the next few years. My depression was so severe a year and a half ago (and all my cortisol tests so abnormal), that I sought out TMS. That treatment really normalized the cortisol findings for a few months at a time; now, I am enough better that I'm not doing it, but I would if I have a bad relapse. TMS is being studied very intensively right now, with the goal of getting it FDA-approved by 2005. Like everything else, it doesn't work for everyone, but I think it's going to be very valuable for lots of people. I never feel so well as I do in the three or four weeks following TMS. I just KNOW that my cortisol is normal, because I feel so calm and can handle stress so much better. And, even though my endocrinologist doesn't really want to test it, I pressure him into it- and it IS normal- temporarily.
I am trying to learn as much as I can about what is wrong in the brains of people with PTSD, and how to make it better. Sometimes, you just need everything- good therapy, medications, and perhaps something like TMS. I don't think we should underestimate the power of therapy to help make our brains more normal- it may be the most pwerful modality of all, though it's certainly not the quickest! I can't help thinking that there couldn't be a board like PB Psychology if we all didn't instinctively realize what power for healthy change therapy has in our lives. Everyone cares so much, and feels so badly, when there is a rupture in the connection to our therapists- and so relieved and happy when we are able to repair it. It seems to be our most essential topic here, doesn't it?
Posted by Aphrodite on August 12, 2004, at 11:55:42
In reply to Re: And another thing... » Ilene, posted by Pfinstegg on August 12, 2004, at 3:17:02
I would be interested in those studies if you have the time to look them up.
Forgive my ignorance; what is TMS?
Posted by Pfinstegg on August 12, 2004, at 12:15:03
In reply to Re: And another thing... » Pfinstegg, posted by Aphrodite on August 12, 2004, at 11:55:42
I'm working on finding them- there aren't too many (yet), but there are some, despite the big disagreements mentioned in the NY Times. They involve SPECT scans and functional MRI imaging, which are not used routinely .
TMS stands for Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation- it's kind of a new version of ECT, without the dangers of anesthesia and memory loss. It's not FDA-approved in the US yet, although it is approved in Canada and Europe, and I think, Australia. I found it to be really safe and very effective- not permanently, but for several months at a time.
Posted by Racer on August 12, 2004, at 12:29:09
In reply to Re: And another thing... » Ilene, posted by Pfinstegg on August 12, 2004, at 3:17:02
I'd be very interested in those studies, too -- and think for two seconds and you'll know why I would have experience with Cushing's Disease, so the whole HPA axis thing is high on my list of interests.
As for the therapy remolding our brains, was it you who brought this up when I slipped back to very old problems that I thought I'd overcome entirely almost 20 years ago through therapy? Whoever it was said, basically, that the traumatic events in my childhood (which, again, included being hit by a car and spending months in hospital/body cast/physical therapy -- I never think of that as a trauma, because I didn't have the experience to find it traumatic at the time, but my body may have experienced it differently...) created neural pathways that became a sort of superhighway system for a long time. Through therapy, we created a sort of frontage road system, if you will: we rerouted all that neural traffic onto new pathways. The old pathways were still there, but they weren't used, the pavement cracked, weeds grew, etc. With the recent traumatic events, the new highways were overwhelmed -- in this case, because they didn't work when faced with the kind of tanks they were faced with -- so the traffic got rerouted onto those old Superhighways again. That doesn't mean that the old therapy didn't work -- it did, as shown by the fact that that system hadn't been used at all in so long. It does mean that those neural pathways, once created, will always be there -- they cannot be destroyed. Therapy allows one to build new highways to reroute the traffic, which allows those old, damaged Superhighways to gather weeds.
Sorry for the amateurish analogy, but it's the best way I had to explain it. As for me, while it would be very nice to be able to wipe out all the long term effects of the trauma and just be happy and healthy and wealthy and wise - well, it would be nice to have long thick shiny hair, too, and 20/20 vision, and maybe a straighter nose, you know? While we're at it, maybe I'd like to be shorter, too -- and I want a pony and some ice cream.
Honestly, despite it all, giving up all those traumas of my childhood (and adulthood, for that matter) would also mean giving up some of my most valued experiences, as well. There's no doubt the car accident was not pleasant, but the nurses were very nice to me, my Grandma sat by my bed and read to me, once I was out of traction and had my cast they let me ride in a go-cart -- just like Curious George! -- and I have a lovely surgical scar that goes from my belly button to my sternum that I wouldn't give up for the world! (<< Although the plastic surgeon I consulted about something else thought I was nuts for saying that, it's still true.) I guess it's just that I wouldn't be me without all of it, you know?
(Aphrodite: TMS is trans-cranial magnetic stimulation. It's the use of magnets, similar to those used for MRI (I think) to stimulate certain areas of the brain -- prefrontal cortex, maybe? -- that has shown a lot of promise. I think, Phinstegg will correct me if I'm wrong, that it was being experimentally used for stroke recovery when they discovered that it also seemed to improve mood, as well.)
Phin, tell me the lastest on TMS? Did you have bilateral, or unilateral? I've read some about it, and that seemed to be the biggest question? (There's a study at Stanford, but I haven't had enough on the ball to apply for it. Maybe I should sit on a cattle prod until I do it...)
Posted by Ilene on August 12, 2004, at 13:01:14
In reply to Re: And another thing...(quick note to Aphrodite) » Pfinstegg, posted by Racer on August 12, 2004, at 12:29:09
> Phin, tell me the lastest on TMS? Did you have bilateral, or unilateral? I've read some about it, and that seemed to be the biggest question? (There's a study at Stanford, but I haven't had enough on the ball to apply for it. Maybe I should sit on a cattle prod until I do it...)
Do you have info on this study? Please email me at
iafuerst-at-morcopy-dot-com
Posted by Pfinstegg on August 12, 2004, at 14:50:11
In reply to OT question for Racer » Racer, posted by Ilene on August 12, 2004, at 13:01:14
There are two psychiatrists, recommended to me by the Dept. of Psychiatry at Emory University, who are very experienced, and who give it "off-label". They are Dr. Mark Hutto, of North Atlanta Psychiatric Associates, and Dr. Steven Best, just west of Chicago. I believe Dr. Best may give it bilaterally, but I went to Dr. Hutto, who gives it only unilaterally, to the left frontal hemisphere. There are various studies, some of which involve being willing to have ECT, and which involve varying placement of frequencies of stimulation. I didn't want ECT, and anyway, would not have qualified for any of them because I'm left-handed.
Currently, Neuronetics Corporation is conducting a 16-center study, hoping to push towards FDA approval in 2005 or 6. They have a web site which you can look at; Dr. Hutto has one too, and can be contacted by e-mail if you are interested. Only about 2/3rds of the people who take it benefit, but you never know whether you'll be one of them. If you are, it's a wonderful treatment for depression.
Posted by Aphrodite on August 12, 2004, at 15:03:22
In reply to TMS, posted by Pfinstegg on August 12, 2004, at 14:50:11
Posted by Aphrodite on August 13, 2004, at 6:59:51
In reply to TMS, posted by Pfinstegg on August 12, 2004, at 14:50:11
Pfin,
I am curious what your feelings are about medication (ADs) as it relates to your previous discussion of therapy trying to integrate the differing parts of yourself. I am not on medication, but yesterday after 10 months of difficult therapy, he gently suggested it. I rebelled at first -- like he was trying to silence some of the more troublesome parts of me -- but now I think I'll consider it. I do not know if you are on meds or not, but I fear that it may make the therapeutic job of working on the ego states more difficult. You do not have to answer, of course, if you prefer not to. Or, you could email me at babbleaphrodite at yahoo dot com, or not at all. I understand either way.
Anyone else have any thoughts on meds and how they affected the work of ego states? It frightens me.
Posted by DaisyM on August 13, 2004, at 10:38:02
In reply to question about meds and ego state work » Pfinstegg, posted by Aphrodite on August 13, 2004, at 6:59:51
One of the huge issues I have is not sleeping. The dreams are terrible and they wake me up and I stay up the rest of the night to avoid more of them. A few months ago, my therapist became very concerned about this because it was contributing very heavily to the suicidal ideation...I was too tired to cope. He talked about medication and suggested I talk to my MD or he would refer to a doc. Sounded fine to me.
I left his office and an hour later freaked out. It was very much like what you said. The parts of me that have been so contained, so silenced where having a fit that we were trying to silence them again. Because she is mostly out at night. It was one of the worst episodes I've had...I literally lost the next morning, couldn't move off my bed. So if this is the discussion just prior to last night, I can see why you had a crisis.
That said, after much more discussion, I do have something to help me sleep now. I don't take it every night but there are times when I've taken it early and put myself to sleep. It helps. I've heard so many differing opinions on the idea of medications. The idea is not to mask your feelings and pain but to make things manageable between sessions so that you can live your life.
My son's therapist stressed that medication was a tool to bring the anxiety down enough to learn how to deal with it, if possible, without medication. But until the anxiety came down in the first place, nothing was getting past it. And that is exactly how it worked...he went on, stabilized and worked hard to learn other things. Now we've weaned him off. He is struggling again so he might go back on. But it isn't a life sentence just because he started taking them. But if he needs them lifelong, that is OK too.
I totally understand your hesitation. I share it. Sleeping aides were a huge first step for me. And they've help me tolerate going into even darker places. I think you should keep talking about it. Since you are already invested in therapy, I doubt whether they would shut down your progress.
Posted by Shadowplayers721 on August 13, 2004, at 12:12:12
In reply to Re: question about meds and ego state work, posted by DaisyM on August 13, 2004, at 10:38:02
Some of mine aren't touched by meds at all. When I was in the hospital, they gave me the shot to calm me down. A little girl came out and started talking about another one. She was wide awake and alert. Meds didn't affect her in the least. You couldn't knock her out with anything. Others initially will fight against them and have some weird reaction, then they will give up and all them to do their action. Meds are tricky with me.
Take klonopin. Sometimes, it knocks me out. Other times it does NOTHING. Then, others, it just calms me a bit. Now, this is the same dosage 0.5 mg It just depends.
Posted by Pfinstegg on August 13, 2004, at 12:51:53
In reply to question about meds and ego state work » Pfinstegg, posted by Aphrodite on August 13, 2004, at 6:59:51
Hi.. I'll answer anything! (or at least offer my 2 cents). You asked a wonderful question, and there isn't a simple answer. Generally speaking, I think therapists (my analyst is among them) who do work trying to integrate separated ego systems prefer to use little or no medication. However, during the most difficult times, many will suggest them. Mine wanted me to see a pdoc a year ago at a time when the good effects of TMS were wearing off, and the therapy was becoming extremely painful. I went on Lexapro between 10 and 20 mg. It made everything much more bearable, but it did have a dulling, anhedonic effect on me, and what I was able to express in therapy. So we decided to gradually wean off of the Lexapro. Because I had taken various SSRIs and atypicals for eight years previously, I was very susceptible to their dopamine-lowering, anhedonic effects. Instead, I'm presently taking Wellbutrin 75 mg. of the old-fashioned regular release. This is a very low dose (300 xr being an average dose), but it is enough to help me have what feels like more normal dopamine levels, and to tolerate the stress and pain of therapy. I also have trouble sleeping, and take klonopin 0.5 about every other night.
So, to sum up, we are trying to keep everything at very low doses, but we're not at the ideal of no medicaton at the moment. I do find that, the less medication, the stronger and more spontaneous my feelings are in therapy.
Posted by Dinah on August 13, 2004, at 13:28:46
In reply to question about meds and ego state work » Pfinstegg, posted by Aphrodite on August 13, 2004, at 6:59:51
Some medications have more effects on it than others. You can always try, and if they are shutting you off from parts of yourself, back off.
I find that the very low dose combo of klonopin and depakote I'm on keeps me on even enough keel that I'm not careening from crisis to crisis, without affecting my ability to reach different parts of myself. When I'm extremely agitated, I take the occasional Risperdal - which does tend to cut me off; but on those occasions I feel so darned bad that I don't mind being cut off.
Posted by Aphrodite on August 13, 2004, at 17:56:09
In reply to Re: question about meds and ego state work, posted by DaisyM on August 13, 2004, at 10:38:02
You're so right, Daisy, that part of the session in which he suggested a pdoc and meds set me into crisis mode. I also couldn't tolerate the thought of he and another person talking about me. Also, since he sends a summary when he refers someone to the pdoc he works with, I am afraid she would have a preconceived notion of who I am.
So, he suggested I find a pdoc on my own and have control over the situation. I was already thinking that I should start small and just get something to help me fall asleep and stay asleep and see if I can then tolerate everything else. Thanks for the insight, as always.
Posted by Aphrodite on August 13, 2004, at 17:59:53
In reply to Re: question about meds and ego state work » Aphrodite, posted by Pfinstegg on August 13, 2004, at 12:51:53
> I do find that, the less medication, the stronger and more spontaneous my feelings are in therapy.
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>That's what I would have guessed. I'm afraid that if meds suppressed my sorrow they would also suppress any joy that might be found. I think that if I can tough it out, I'd rather be in the thick of it all, feeling everything, so that the differing parts could integrate fully.
Of course, I may just be saying this because I feel a little rebellious toward his suggestion:) Those tantruming little inner children can be difficult!!!
Posted by Aphrodite on August 13, 2004, at 18:03:50
In reply to Re: question about meds and ego state work, posted by Aphrodite on August 13, 2004, at 17:59:53
Posted by Pfinstegg on August 14, 2004, at 10:05:38
In reply to Above for Pfinstegg ^^^^ (nm), posted by Aphrodite on August 13, 2004, at 18:03:50
As you can see, we compromised (he wanting meds temporarily, me not wanting them). I had to stop and remember that he's been doing this work for 30 years, and probably knows when to suggest them. Since I've been able to get by on very low doses, I don't think it's making a lot of difference one way or another. The Wellbutrin, if anything, makes one's feelings stronger, and the Klonopin for bed-time only.The SSRIs- well, they all vary some, but the Lexapro seemed to take away all my dreams, sexual desires and strong feelings in general, so, for me, it was a poor choice for in-depth work. I am noticing that, off of it, my other ego states are a lot closer to the surface, and easier to get out into the open. I also make lots more sudden, unexpected slips of the tongue - comments which only the *other parts* would make. As an example:
My T. brought up something I had mentioned a number of times- a vivid mental picture of my father having been castrated, with blood all over his legs. He asked, "When did you start to have that thought?"
Without knowing I was going to speak, a voice in me quickly said " after". I was so shocked to hear myself say that, as I don't remember what he actually did to me. It helped us a lot to start chipping away at these unconscious memories- I am remembering a bit more almost every time I'm there. I don't think this would have happened if I'd been highly medicated, but the low levels seem to be helping me in my own life, while not interfering with therapy
Posted by Aphrodite on August 14, 2004, at 14:49:05
In reply to Re: Above for Pfinstegg ^^^^(caution - may trigger » Aphrodite, posted by Pfinstegg on August 14, 2004, at 10:05:38
Thank you for all of this helpful information. I will keep this in mind if I should end up consulting a pdoc.
Sounds like you are doing such hard work. I hope there is much healing on the other side of it.
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