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Quit bothering my T?

Posted by tinydancer on March 30, 2004, at 15:21:24

How would I know if I'm being irritating or annoying to my T? What constitutes bothersome behavior? After my little conversation with a friend of mine (see social board for post) I feel like I've treated my T horribly and that I've taken him for granted, and been a nosy, irritating person who doesn't know when to stop or how to take a hint. It makes me feel so ashamed, as a person, like I'm helpless to do anything about it. I think that my T likes me but I'm worried now that I am close to pushing him to his limit or something and he's fed up with my incessant demands and all my confessions of love to him and so on..Thoughts?

 

Re: Quit bothering my T?/ NO he would tell you

Posted by Fallen4myT on March 30, 2004, at 15:49:47

In reply to Quit bothering my T?, posted by tinydancer on March 30, 2004, at 15:21:24

I will post later I am on my way out but no your T looked for you on the web and all he cares and if he did mind he would say so...BE YOU

 

Re: Quit bothering my T? » tinydancer

Posted by crushedout on March 30, 2004, at 19:00:08

In reply to Quit bothering my T?, posted by tinydancer on March 30, 2004, at 15:21:24


tiny,

i don't know if i can be of much help since i'm in a similar place as you are. i feel like a real nuisance to my t. i keep asking her for an extra session and she's told me that it's burdensome to her, so i know there's a good chance i'm being a burden. it feels really bad.

i emailed her tonight and basically begged her to squeeze me in tomorrow. two sessions a week just doesn't feel like enough. do you really tell your t you love him? i kind of wish i could do that. i get really shy with mine.


> How would I know if I'm being irritating or annoying to my T? What constitutes bothersome behavior? After my little conversation with a friend of mine (see social board for post) I feel like I've treated my T horribly and that I've taken him for granted, and been a nosy, irritating person who doesn't know when to stop or how to take a hint. It makes me feel so ashamed, as a person, like I'm helpless to do anything about it. I think that my T likes me but I'm worried now that I am close to pushing him to his limit or something and he's fed up with my incessant demands and all my confessions of love to him and so on..Thoughts?


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