Posted by crushedout on March 30, 2004, at 19:00:08
In reply to Quit bothering my T?, posted by tinydancer on March 30, 2004, at 15:21:24
tiny,i don't know if i can be of much help since i'm in a similar place as you are. i feel like a real nuisance to my t. i keep asking her for an extra session and she's told me that it's burdensome to her, so i know there's a good chance i'm being a burden. it feels really bad.
i emailed her tonight and basically begged her to squeeze me in tomorrow. two sessions a week just doesn't feel like enough. do you really tell your t you love him? i kind of wish i could do that. i get really shy with mine.
> How would I know if I'm being irritating or annoying to my T? What constitutes bothersome behavior? After my little conversation with a friend of mine (see social board for post) I feel like I've treated my T horribly and that I've taken him for granted, and been a nosy, irritating person who doesn't know when to stop or how to take a hint. It makes me feel so ashamed, as a person, like I'm helpless to do anything about it. I think that my T likes me but I'm worried now that I am close to pushing him to his limit or something and he's fed up with my incessant demands and all my confessions of love to him and so on..Thoughts?
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