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Posted by Sonine on September 19, 2003, at 20:59:23
I'm 21 and I am not myself anymore. I really have no idea where to turn to or what has happened to me, so I don't know. I have lived a life with typical and atypical life events, but nothing horribly traumatic. The problem is that me a year ago is drastically different from me now. I am in my final year of college and I have quit caring about studying, but I am instensly afraid of failing and not finding a job. On the rare occasion that I do study, I have the hardest time concentrating or even really understanding what I'm reading.
I used to go out and party a lot, but I not I spend most of my nights with cable tv and my computer. I always make plans with my friends that fall through or I might just cancel on them altogether.
I have gained almost 20 pounds since all of this, and I cannot control my eating habits. I don't eat a sensible dinner I eat everything I can get my hands on for dinner. I rarely have enough energy to exercise let along study. I have started taking extensive care of my body, hygenically. I wash my face twice a day and take care of any blemishes with a variety of face creams. I am very careful about my nails... keeping them neatly filed and clean.
I used to volunteer at a couple of after school programs, but after my classes I just don't have the energy for anything but going home now.
I am starting a new part time job soon, and I don't know how I am ever going to find the energy to do this and school-- considering I'm not even working hard at school right now.
I saw a therapist this summer who wanted me to see a psychiatrist and go on prozac. I don't want to go on prozac unless it's the only thing that will make me feel better. I just can't tell what's going on right now. I know I'm not confident or very happy anymore, and I can't tell if this is depression, senioritis, or what.
Posted by deirdrehbrt on September 19, 2003, at 21:53:21
In reply to What is going on?!, posted by Sonine on September 19, 2003, at 20:59:23
Sonine,
You sound like you have quite alot on your plate. It's good that you are taking care of your body as that will only help you feel better. Your mind too though, needs taking care of.
The Therapist may have recommended Prozac, but a psychiatrist may recommend something else. It is probably a good idea to talk to a therapist and / or a psychiatrist. They can maybe help you work through all of the changes that are going on in your life. It's better IMO to at least have a handle on the issues while you are in school, rather than having to fight through them after you have graduated and have a job to deal with.
The meds that are used to treat depression aren't really the demons that they were reputed to be years ago. Depression is an illness, just like strep or the flu or chicken pox. The difference between a virus and depression is that depression and most mental illness can be treated.
You can probably find someone on campus to talk to. Check out the health center. I'm certain that you can feel better, and that you deserve to.
Dee.
Posted by Adia on September 20, 2003, at 12:45:24
In reply to What is going on?!, posted by Sonine on September 19, 2003, at 20:59:23
Hi there..
I agree with Dee, I think it would be so good for you if you could talk to a therapist or psychiatrist...They could help you find out why you are feeling this way and they will find ways to help you...
Maybe the therapist you talked to wasn't the right one for you?..Is there anyone else you can talk to?
I agree with Dee that meds can help you, too..I think that it is important to treat the underlying problems or issues too, with therapy..
but meds definitely can help..
I do hope you can reach out and get the help you're needing and deserve...
I am sending you lots of support, I do encourage you to reach out and ask for help...
Let us know what happens, okay?
You deserve to feel better...
Take care,
Adia.> I'm 21 and I am not myself anymore. I really have no idea where to turn to or what has happened to me, so I don't know. I have lived a life with typical and atypical life events, but nothing horribly traumatic. The problem is that me a year ago is drastically different from me now. I am in my final year of college and I have quit caring about studying, but I am instensly afraid of failing and not finding a job. On the rare occasion that I do study, I have the hardest time concentrating or even really understanding what I'm reading.
> I used to go out and party a lot, but I not I spend most of my nights with cable tv and my computer. I always make plans with my friends that fall through or I might just cancel on them altogether.
> I have gained almost 20 pounds since all of this, and I cannot control my eating habits. I don't eat a sensible dinner I eat everything I can get my hands on for dinner. I rarely have enough energy to exercise let along study. I have started taking extensive care of my body, hygenically. I wash my face twice a day and take care of any blemishes with a variety of face creams. I am very careful about my nails... keeping them neatly filed and clean.
> I used to volunteer at a couple of after school programs, but after my classes I just don't have the energy for anything but going home now.
> I am starting a new part time job soon, and I don't know how I am ever going to find the energy to do this and school-- considering I'm not even working hard at school right now.
> I saw a therapist this summer who wanted me to see a psychiatrist and go on prozac. I don't want to go on prozac unless it's the only thing that will make me feel better. I just can't tell what's going on right now. I know I'm not confident or very happy anymore, and I can't tell if this is depression, senioritis, or what.
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