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Posted by AuntieMel on August 9, 2006, at 9:50:33
In reply to Re: objection rules, posted by Estella on August 9, 2006, at 4:48:19
Maybe, but if a person objects to a large number of posts by the same poster wouldn't it start to *feel* personal?
And, though Dr. Bob didn't say it, the three times rule was three objections that were ruled *not* uncivil. It didn't apply to more than three objections to truly uncivil posts.
Posted by Estella on August 9, 2006, at 10:12:53
In reply to Re: objection rules » Estella, posted by AuntieMel on August 9, 2006, at 9:50:33
I don't think the poster gets to see them anymore (if they are emailed to deputies / bob).
but yeah i stand corrected on the only if i've said they are civil point.
Posted by Dinah on August 9, 2006, at 11:15:13
In reply to Re: objection rules » AuntieMel, posted by Estella on August 9, 2006, at 10:12:53
I think previously one could email as many objections as one wished. It was only on board objections that were limited.
Now it would appear on board requests for determinations to specific posts are limited to none at all and off board ones are now limited.
I think I approve of the former part, about on board requests for determinations. But I'm not sure I agree with that latter part... I can see times when that might not really be fair. But I suppose if other people saw problems with the post they could bring it to the attention of Dr. Bob and deputies.
Posted by Jost on August 9, 2006, at 16:54:16
In reply to Re: objection rules » Estella, posted by Dinah on August 9, 2006, at 11:15:13
As I said somewhere, I don't understand the utility of this rule, except if Bob is overwhelmed with objections in his private email.
Even then, I can't say this strikes me as a fair idea.
I could understand limiting people's objections beyond a certain point--which I can't imagine is three per other poster per lifetime-- or if there seems to be some sort of personal issue, to asking people not to object for a while, and to give it more thought.
But three objections that Bob doesn't agree with per lifetime? That seems draconian.
Let's assume, for the sake of argument, that Bob doesn't agree, but is wrong.
Or let's say that the poster"s comments are close to the line, but Bob wants to be more rather than less accepting. Let's say that for some reason, Bob later realizes the person has been using the suppression of objections to be just-so close to the line, but not over. He begins to regret his leniency.
Yet for all this time, everyone who's objected more than three times has been estopped from asking about Bob's judgment.
This can impose costs on many people who might want to join in on threads where this poster is active, to interact with those other than the one poster.
I don't know. I could see limits-- but three? per lifetime per objected-to poster?
Jost
Posted by Dinah on August 9, 2006, at 19:53:50
In reply to Re: objection rules, posted by Jost on August 9, 2006, at 16:54:16
I actually agree.
I see the purpose for it on the board, but I don't really see it in emails.
I agree that at some point there should be limits, but three per person no matter what the time frame doesn't seem to be the best use of limits. And the burden of counting the requests from/to might be greater than the burden of receiving a few more emails.
Maybe the limits should be defined in another way? And perhaps after the rule of email only requests has been in place for a while, and areas of concern have been identified?
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 10, 2006, at 10:30:52
In reply to Re: objection rules, posted by Jost on August 9, 2006, at 16:54:16
> As I said somewhere, I don't understand the utility of this rule, except if Bob is overwhelmed with objections in his private email.
There's that, not wanting to be overwhelmed, but I think it could also help keep our focus on support...
> I could understand ... if there seems to be some sort of personal issue, to asking people not to object for a while, and to give it more thought.
Maybe people will give them more thought because there's a limit?
> Or let's say that the poster"s comments are close to the line, but Bob wants to be more rather than less accepting. Let's say that for some reason, Bob later realizes the person has been using the suppression of objections to be just-so close to the line, but not over. He begins to regret his leniency.
>
> Yet for all this time, everyone who's objected more than three times has been estopped from asking about Bob's judgment.Those particular posters would be, but others could still object...
> This can impose costs on many people who might want to join in on threads where this poster is active, to interact with those other than the one poster.
Costs because that poster would be posting uncivilly? Maybe, but part of the idea is that if we haven't acted on 3 objections, there's a reasonable chance we wouldn't on additional ones, either.
Thanks for your input, and let me know if you have any other questions,
Bob
Posted by Jost on August 10, 2006, at 11:09:07
In reply to Oh OK Thanks, posted by zazenducks on August 8, 2006, at 19:05:42
Is that a rule, or a suggestion that there be discussion of a proposed rule?
I find myself baffled by the rule and at a loss as to the problem the rule solves.
But mostly, I don't understand why there should be a lifetime restriction of three objections that Bob doesn't agree with by any one poster A against posts by any other poster B.
???
Jost
Posted by Estella on August 10, 2006, at 11:09:08
In reply to Re: Oh OK Thanks, posted by Jost on August 9, 2006, at 4:10:06
> Is that a rule, or a suggestion that there be discussion of a proposed rule?
I'm not sure on that one either.
> I find myself baffled by the rule and at a loss as to the problem the rule solves.The three post rule.
I think at one point in Babble history someone wanted to post 100 posts on something or other... It thus became an issue as to whether there should be some limits set on how many posts one could post without others responding along the way. I have some sympathy for setting limits. I remember thinking at the time that a three post limit was a good idea. Then hearing the other side and thinking they had a point. And back and forth I went. I post maybe 4 or 5 in succession sometimes. As my thoughts unfold. If I remember rightly that was what the person thought about their posting style too. I guess that too many posts by one person can look a little overwhelming. I'm still not sure.
> But mostly, I don't understand why there should be a lifetime restriction of three objections that Bob doesn't agree with by any one poster A against posts by any other poster B.I don't quite get that one either. I think at one point in Babble history there were frequent requests for determination on the civility of posts. By frequent I mean... That limits were set so that you weren't allowed to request more than three civility determinations in one day (I think that is right). People felt like the poster was trying to get others in trouble. The poster said that was *not* the intention it was more around trying to clarify the civility rules for the benefit of the forum as a whole. People took it personally when civility determinations were requested on their posts. Hard not to even if you do accept that the poster wasn't trying to get one blocked. There would still be that little bit of worry that one might be blocked until the determination came through... Hope this helps.
Posted by notfred on August 10, 2006, at 11:09:08
In reply to Re: Oh OK Thanks, posted by Jost on August 9, 2006, at 4:10:06
A poster in the past was unable to post without making multiple posts to cover, what would be for most, one post. People complained as they did not like reading ~10 posts in a row for what they felt could of taken one post, but to poster did not modify their posting style.
The same poster would request that dr bob review lots for posts; sometimes these requests would number several (different or same posters) within the same day.
That is were these rules started.
Posted by greywolf on August 10, 2006, at 11:09:09
In reply to Re: Oh OK Thanks, posted by notfred on August 9, 2006, at 10:15:23
What about a rule that rules should not be created unless truly necessary to control or avoid a significant problem?
Posted by gardenergirl on August 10, 2006, at 11:09:09
In reply to Re: Oh OK Thanks, posted by Jost on August 9, 2006, at 4:10:06
> Is that a rule, or a suggestion that there be discussion of a proposed rule?
It's been a rule since late Oct. 2004. It came back up again in June 2005, and at that time Dr. Bob confirmed that it would continue.
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20050614/msgs/514263.htmlNow the procedure for requesting administrative review of a post is changing, but the rule is still in place. http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20060802/msgs/674584.html
gg
Posted by madeline on August 10, 2006, at 11:09:09
In reply to Re: Oh OK Thanks » Jost, posted by gardenergirl on August 9, 2006, at 11:46:37
ok, so to see if I understand this.
If we have a problem with a particular post, or poster, we are to babblemail Dr. Bob or the deputies with our concerns. They will look at the post and decide whether or not they agree with our concerns and will act appropriately.
Regardless of any action, inaction taken, we can only complain about a particular poster (but not about the posts from other babblers) three times.
Is this right?
Posted by Dinah on August 10, 2006, at 11:09:09
In reply to Re: Oh OK Thanks, posted by madeline on August 9, 2006, at 12:38:03
Only if no action is taken.
Posted by notfred on August 10, 2006, at 11:09:10
In reply to Re: Oh OK Thanks, posted by greywolf on August 9, 2006, at 11:35:10
> What about a rule that rules should not be created unless truly necessary to control or avoid a significant problem?
>
>There is only one thing I am sure of; more complaints on admin bring more rules. Most often
this is not the result people want or like (at least the minority that expresses its opinion, a majority of people here do not post).
Posted by notfred on August 10, 2006, at 11:09:10
In reply to Re: Oh OK Thanks, posted by greywolf on August 9, 2006, at 11:35:10
> What about a rule that rules should not be created unless truly necessary to control or avoid a significant problem?
>
>
I consider a poster reporting people to the admin board multiple times a day to be a big problem.
I consider a poster reporting the same poster over and over to be a problem.Take a look at the archives, the poster in question was Lou Pilder.
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 10, 2006, at 11:23:05
In reply to Re: Oh OK Thanks, posted by notfred on August 9, 2006, at 16:18:32
> I consider a poster reporting people to the admin board multiple times a day to be a big problem.
> I consider a poster reporting the same poster over and over to be a problem.
>
> Take a look at the archives, the poster in question was Lou Pilder.Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.
I'd like this is to be a discussion about a policy, or a general behavior, and not a particular person.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 10, 2006, at 11:24:15
In reply to Re: Oh OK Thanks, posted by notfred on August 9, 2006, at 14:19:05
> What about a rule that rules should not be created unless truly necessary to control or avoid a significant problem?
>
> greywolfThat makes sense to me. But unfortunately I haven't been able to think of another way to control or avoid this one. But I'm open to suggestions...
> There is only one thing I am sure of; more complaints on admin bring more rules. Most often
> this is not the result people want or like
>
> notfredAnd so therefore... :-)
Bob
Posted by greywolf on August 10, 2006, at 12:50:32
In reply to Re: complaints, posted by Dr. Bob on August 10, 2006, at 11:24:15
> > What about a rule that rules should not be created unless truly necessary to control or avoid a significant problem?
> >
> > greywolf
>
> That makes sense to me. But unfortunately I haven't been able to think of another way to control or avoid this one. But I'm open to suggestions...
>
> > There is only one thing I am sure of; more complaints on admin bring more rules. Most often
> > this is not the result people want or like
> >
> > notfred
>
> And so therefore... :-)
>
> BobI was just trying to interject a little humor. Since I am not on the receiving end of time-consuming complaints, I'm not operating on any factual basis for my comment. Consequently, I fall back on the weakest of all defenses: "just kidding."
Posted by Jost on August 10, 2006, at 19:01:58
In reply to Re: Oh OK Thanks » Jost, posted by gardenergirl on August 9, 2006, at 11:46:37
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 11, 2006, at 0:30:53
In reply to Re: complaints » Dr. Bob, posted by greywolf on August 10, 2006, at 12:50:32
Posted by Dinah on August 11, 2006, at 10:16:32
In reply to Re: objection rules » Jost, posted by Dinah on August 9, 2006, at 19:53:50
Since I don't mind, and since it's ok with Dr. Bob if I offer, posters can babblemail me personally after the rule kicks in. I'm ok with people asking, as long as they realize and accept that I might not agree with their viewpoint.
Posted by Phillipa on August 11, 2006, at 22:46:55
In reply to Lou's views, posted by Lou Pilder on October 29, 2004, at 7:24:29
Lou I had the same idea It was voted at at the time. Maybe since there are so many boards it will be needed? Love Phillipa
Posted by Jost on August 11, 2006, at 23:25:56
In reply to Re: objection rules offer, posted by Dinah on August 11, 2006, at 10:16:32
Thanks, Dinah. That's extremely generous of you.
The issue might not be so pressing, if everyone has lived with it for this long, without knowing it-- But having someone to write to, without potential consequences, seems like a really constructive idea.
It's great that you offered.
Jost
Posted by Lou PIlder on August 13, 2006, at 6:34:29
In reply to Re: Lou's views » Lou Pilder, posted by Phillipa on August 11, 2006, at 22:46:55
Phillipa,
You wrote,[...had the same idea...]
Thank you for posting such for it is refreshing to me to know that another thinks like me in some perspectives.
Lou
Posted by Lou Pilder on August 13, 2006, at 7:31:14
In reply to Re: objection rules, posted by Jost on August 9, 2006, at 16:54:16
Jost,
You wrote,[...let's assume...Bob doesn't agree, but is wrong...].
Thank you for posting this, for I believe that this is an essential point in this discussion.
Lou
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