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Posted by allisonross on December 13, 2005, at 17:51:37
In reply to Re: Voce: Please contact me, posted by allisonross on December 13, 2005, at 17:35:14
She made a decision, and simply
wants to be understood and supported.
When we think we understand something, we may not. It is difficult to really know another person, and what they have gone through.
I struggled for years to get a divorce (after 31 years) No one could even imagine what I went through. No one ever gave me advice. I didn't need advice, I simply needed their support.
I am very concerned about what has gone on here, because I took a lot of criticism, and it was very painful.
I am a member of AS for years:(Abused Survivors), and never...not even once, had anyone caused me to feel criticized. That in itself is a miracle.
It makes me wonder what goes on here, since now already 2 people feel this way. Criticized and unsafe (of course not by everyone.
If one feels criticized, of course.....one can never....feel supported.
Ally
Posted by happyflower on December 13, 2005, at 18:01:44
In reply to Re: I understand what Happyflower is saying, posted by allisonross on December 13, 2005, at 17:43:53
I agree I should of received a PBS, but it was response to a very rude post by Orchid (who didn't recieve one, by the way) who said that I am not capable of all the emotioal investment neeeded for marriage . Then saying that I need to wait for a year to come to a REALISTIC conclusion about my marriage.
I didn't post asking for any ones view on should I get divorsed. I was simply looking for support on my decision. I can't belive I get a PBC, when she was the one who was rude, demeaning and unsupportive several times on more than one thread pushing her view point. I guess I just doesn't matter anymore anyways, because I am leaving. Thanks for my first PBC, I agree with it, but I still can't believe I am the only one who got one.
Posted by Dinah on December 13, 2005, at 18:06:32
In reply to Re: I understand what Happyflower is saying, posted by happyflower on December 13, 2005, at 18:01:44
> I can't belive I get a PBC, when she was the one who was rude, demeaning and unsupportive several times on more than one thread pushing her view point.
Dinah here, acting as deputy for Dr. Bob.
Again, I'm sorry. But once you've been warned to be civil for a particular behavior, the result of a repeat of that behavior is a block. Dr. Bob reviews all deputy actions, and if you believe this action is unwarranted, please contact him by email. His address is at the bottom of each page.
I understand that you're upset. And I hope you're able to get support during this week, and that you feel free to come back afterwards.
Regarding other posts on the thread, I've asked Dr. Bob to review the thread. I'm not certain that any other posts meet the criteria for incivility, but of course it's up to Dr. Bob to make that determination.
Dinah
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