Posted by allisonross on December 13, 2005, at 17:43:53 [reposted on December 13, 2005, at 17:51:37 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Voce: Please contact me, posted by allisonross on December 13, 2005, at 17:35:14
She made a decision, and simply
wants to be understood and supported.
When we think we understand something, we may not. It is difficult to really know another person, and what they have gone through.
I struggled for years to get a divorce (after 31 years) No one could even imagine what I went through. No one ever gave me advice. I didn't need advice, I simply needed their support.
I am very concerned about what has gone on here, because I took a lot of criticism, and it was very painful.
I am a member of AS for years:(Abused Survivors), and never...not even once, had anyone caused me to feel criticized. That in itself is a miracle.
It makes me wonder what goes on here, since now already 2 people feel this way. Criticized and unsafe (of course not by everyone.
If one feels criticized, of course.....one can never....feel supported.
Ally
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