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Posted by alexandra_k on February 7, 2005, at 22:39:48
In reply to Re: Rules » Gabbix2, posted by alexandra_k on February 7, 2005, at 22:38:11
But does that mean you think the situation is getting better????
Posted by Gabbix2 on February 7, 2005, at 22:43:43
In reply to Re: Rules - Gabbix, posted by alexandra_k on February 7, 2005, at 22:39:48
> But does that mean you think the situation is getting better????
UUUHHH sort of? But I wish if the rules have been softened that Bob would say something and that he would acknowledge the people who'd helped change his mind. There were other times where it seemed to me Bob has had lenient periods and then snapped back to his former strict standards without notice, and all it does is confuse.
Posted by alexandra_k on February 7, 2005, at 22:48:29
In reply to Re: Rules - Gabbix » alexandra_k, posted by Gabbix2 on February 7, 2005, at 22:43:43
> > But does that mean you think the situation is getting better????
> UUUHHH sort of? But I wish if the rules have been softened that Bob would say something and that he would acknowledge the people who'd helped change his mind.Hmm. Perhaps we shouldn't push it... ;-)
>There were other times where it seemed to me Bob has had lenient periods and then snapped back to his former strict standards without notice, and all it does is confuse.
I wonder if this may happen after peoples give him a particularly hard time about a block or a length of blocking...
I dunno. Maybe he is trying to keep us on our toes...
Posted by Gabbix2 on February 7, 2005, at 22:57:57
In reply to Re: Rules - Gabbix » Gabbix2, posted by alexandra_k on February 7, 2005, at 22:48:29
> Hmm. Perhaps we shouldn't push it... ;-)
Oh geez, you're right!
> I dunno. Maybe he is trying to keep us on our toes...
It works well.
Posted by alexandra_k on February 7, 2005, at 23:40:41
In reply to Re: Rules - Gabbix » alexandra_k, posted by Gabbix2 on February 7, 2005, at 22:57:57
Though if we really are serious about wanting a change in the blocking policy it might be something best discussed when we are feeling fairly cool calm and collected about it all rather than waiting till we are mad as hell...
Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on February 7, 2005, at 23:51:11
In reply to Re: Rules - Gabbix » Gabbix2, posted by alexandra_k on February 7, 2005, at 23:40:41
> Though if we really are serious about wanting a change in the blocking policy it might be something best discussed when we are feeling fairly cool calm and collected about it all rather than waiting till we are mad as hell...
Yes that's a good point, it really is,
but then.. it's also a good way to make oneself mad as hell in my experience. : )
Posted by alexandra_k on February 8, 2005, at 0:18:47
In reply to Re: Rules - Gabbix » alexandra_k, posted by Gabbi-x-2 on February 7, 2005, at 23:51:11
> Yes that's a good point, it really is,
> but then.. it's also a good way to make oneself >mad as hell in my experience. : )Aaaaaaah, but if we are careful to observe the civility 'guidelines'...
;-)
Posted by gardenergirl on February 8, 2005, at 6:40:23
In reply to Re: Rules - Gabbix, posted by alexandra_k on February 8, 2005, at 0:18:47
So hell is okay here? (Now there's a question!)
I would think that would be asterisked.What if hell were asterisked? Would it not feel like hell? Okay, too early in the morning. I've made my head hurt.
:0
gg
Posted by Dinah on February 8, 2005, at 8:23:21
In reply to Re: Rules - Gabbix » alexandra_k, posted by Gabbi-x-2 on February 7, 2005, at 23:51:11
Posted by Dinah on February 8, 2005, at 8:26:03
In reply to Re: Rules - Gabbix » alexandra_k, posted by Gabbix2 on February 7, 2005, at 22:43:43
I too have noticed he's decided to listen to feedback and be a bit more understanding when people appear to be trying to follow the rules. He still can't stand having a cease and desist order violated, even slightly, though.
I don't know if it has validity any longer, because my observations is that it isn't balanced on this, but he used to say that he was more vigilant when he thought there was a forest fire in the making.
Posted by Toph on February 8, 2005, at 10:24:33
In reply to Re: Rules - Gabbix » Gabbix2, posted by Dinah on February 8, 2005, at 8:26:03
> I too have noticed he's decided to listen to feedback and be a bit more understanding when people appear to be trying to follow the rules. He still can't stand having a cease and desist order violated, even slightly, though.
>
> I don't know if it has validity any longer, because my observations is that it isn't balanced on this, but he used to say that he was more vigilant when he thought there was a forest fire in the making.I may not be as qualified or experienced as you are, and while this may sound like sour grapes, I disagree. I find in my short time here that (to use the 911 metaphor again) Bob is a better cop than a detective, extinguishes some fires that are actually candles, and confuses misdemeanors for felonies and vice versa - arsonists and serial killers escape justice while regular participants are banished for excessive parking tickets.
OK, so I'm a touch dramatic.
Toph
Posted by AuntieMel on February 8, 2005, at 11:09:52
In reply to Re: Rules - Gabbix, posted by gardenergirl on February 8, 2005, at 6:40:23
hell is allowed and b*mbo isn't
Posted by Dr. Bob on February 8, 2005, at 14:11:13
In reply to Re: Rules » Toph, posted by Gabbix2 on February 7, 2005, at 22:39:43
> is it not condescending for Bob to stop the discourse when both parties may not want his intrusion?
>
> TophOne issue here is that posts aren't just between two people. Posters can discourse however they like by email, but what they post affects the environment for everyone.
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> I used to be far more angry and say "This is B.S" But the truth is the I prefer the posters at babble as a whole better than any other board I've posted on, so *something* is being done right.
>
> Gabbix2I know I'm not perfect, but I try to do my best. And I agree, the posters here are great! :-)
Bob
Posted by AuntieMel on February 8, 2005, at 15:53:11
In reply to Re: the posters at babble, posted by Dr. Bob on February 8, 2005, at 14:11:13
Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on February 8, 2005, at 16:35:31
In reply to Re: aw, shucks (nm) » Dr. Bob, posted by AuntieMel on February 8, 2005, at 15:53:11
I'll second that
Posted by Jai Narayan on February 8, 2005, at 18:50:35
In reply to Re: the posters at babble, posted by Dr. Bob on February 8, 2005, at 14:11:13
you are better than all right.
I have appreciated you and this site for over a year now.
I know there are many who have fled this site for PC.
And I have read their posts.
but...
you knew this was coming.
Dr. Bob, honestly I have never had a problem with you.
You wanted me not to post while I was wrapped up in my political fervor...
I understood that.
Life goes on...
I still come here to babble and read the posts, enjoy the posters and am interested in your opinions.
Jai Narayan
Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on February 9, 2005, at 0:14:31
In reply to Re: the posters at babble, posted by Dr. Bob on February 8, 2005, at 14:11:13
I need to rephrase this for myself, it probably looks silly but I have too.
....the truth is the I prefer the posters at babble as a whole better than any other board I've posted on, so *something* is being done right.
That sounded completely egocentric.
"As long as I prefer the posters here, something is being done right" YUK!
That wasn't at all what I was thinking. I meant that I think the posters here overall are the most intelligent, interesting people I've met on any board, so something must be being done right. There I feel better now.
Posted by Toph on February 9, 2005, at 6:41:47
In reply to Re: Rules - » Dinah, posted by Toph on February 8, 2005, at 10:24:33
>
> ...arsonists and serial killers escape justice...It just dawned on me that generalizations can be uncivil. Anger can cloud one's judgment. I apologize, especially to anyone I might of offended.
Toph
Posted by karen_kay on February 9, 2005, at 8:03:06
In reply to dear Doc Bob...., posted by Jai Narayan on February 8, 2005, at 18:50:35
jai, jai, jai.....
when will you learn that kissing mr bob's butt won't make him like you any better. remember, it's other places he likes kissed even more.
discombobulated and confused (and of course mr bob's fav.),
kk
Posted by AuntieMel on February 9, 2005, at 12:44:08
In reply to dear Doc Bob...., posted by Jai Narayan on February 8, 2005, at 18:50:35
I know I can be a rabble rouser at times, and I do often disagree with you.
But I can't see myself going anywhere else. This place *is* special. I've never posted anywhere else before and I doubt I will in the future either.
And - I'm a computer geek!
Posted by Jai Narayan on February 9, 2005, at 21:19:01
In reply to Re: dear Doc Bob.... » Jai Narayan, posted by karen_kay on February 9, 2005, at 8:03:06
pray tell, what places should I kiss the dear Doctor?
and would everyone else on the site mind?
slinky?
have you asked around?
god I miss you girl!!!
it just ain't the same without you...
how many have said this to you and how often...
it's so good to hear your sassy talk.
Ja*
Posted by Jai Narayan on February 9, 2005, at 21:23:07
In reply to Re: dear Doc Bob.... me too., posted by AuntieMel on February 9, 2005, at 12:44:08
oh AuntieMel....
okay have your already been asked how you got your name?
I had an Auntie Ed, Auntie Mo, Auntie Tell.....
and my sister was called Uncle Ellen....
so I think I qualify as one who needs to know....
don't you think?
Ja*
Posted by Slinky on February 9, 2005, at 22:23:36
In reply to KK now you've got my curiosity.....hummmmm, posted by Jai Narayan on February 9, 2005, at 21:19:01
> and would everyone else on the site mind?
> slinky?No worries..I'm in my yearn for Kate Moss phase
Posted by Dr. Bob on February 9, 2005, at 23:21:52
In reply to Re: Rules - Bob, posted by Toph on February 9, 2005, at 6:41:47
Posted by AuntieMel on February 10, 2005, at 9:25:25
In reply to AuntieMel....pick me...over here....pick me:), posted by Jai Narayan on February 9, 2005, at 21:23:07
Actually, I think I did explain once, but I don't mind repeating it.
One of my dearest (probably best) friends lives over in England. I met him through work, though oddly when we worked in the same office we hardly talked. We became good friends when we both began travelling for the company - and after he'd moved.
I was over there when his first child was born, and shortly after the second, and many times before, in between and after both births. When I'm over, I always spend as much time as possible with him, his wife and kids.
The kiddos call me 'Auntie Mel' in that cute voice only a British child has. And when we go out sightseeing or something they always call it a 'Mel adventure.'
So - that's the story of the name. Not because I'm a dried up little old lady. I turned 50 this hear, but I'm anything but dried up....
Now - have you explained yours??
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