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Posted by phillipa on January 20, 2005, at 23:37:30
In reply to Re: blocked for 8 weeks, posted by ed_uk on January 19, 2005, at 11:36:30
Sorry chemist. Your knowledge is phenomenal. I guess you get really "frustrated" when someone offers many excuses. Fondly, Phillipa
Will miss your Posts.
Posted by jujube on January 20, 2005, at 23:37:30
In reply to Re: blocked for 8 weeks » chemist, posted by Dr. Bob on January 19, 2005, at 8:07:21
8 weeks - WOW! I think that is a bit harsh for someone who actually provided long and thoughtful (albeit cranky) responses to a poster in need (not only in need of advice, but also in need of the harsh truth).
> > your directives - repeated and annoying
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> > you litter PB
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> > You have not once attempted to even peripherally address the illegal use of pentobarbital or phenytoin, conveniently stocked among Dad's toiletries. And why the fixation on MDMA?
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> Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down. Sorry, but the last time you were blocked it was for 4 weeks, so this time I'm making it for 8.
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> If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
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> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
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> Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above posts, should of course themselves be civil.
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> Thanks,
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> Bob
Posted by Shortelise on January 20, 2005, at 23:37:31
In reply to Re: blocked for 8 weeks » chemist, posted by Dr. Bob on January 19, 2005, at 8:07:21
I have to say that Matt didn't seem offended. Chemist spoke his mind in a straightforward way that I found perfectly acceptable.
It's a real pity he has been blocked. Only a few others seem to have the knowledge he has and is so willing to share.
ShortE
Posted by linkadge on January 20, 2005, at 23:37:31
In reply to shortsighted blocking » Dr. Bob, posted by Shortelise on January 19, 2005, at 20:27:41
I think Chemist was jumping to conclusions and not offering suggestions in a constructive way.
This is a site for support and advice, not a place to be condemned.Linkadge
Posted by mmcconathy on January 20, 2005, at 23:37:31
In reply to Re: shortsighted blocking, posted by linkadge on January 19, 2005, at 20:50:42
I was doing stuff that I wasnt and i came out on the post about it, and chemist told me off like i should have been...
I'm very sorry for all of this...
Posted by zeugma on January 20, 2005, at 23:37:31
In reply to Re: im sorry if I caused him to get blocked, posted by mmcconathy on January 20, 2005, at 11:42:37
> I was doing stuff that I wasnt and i came out on the post about it, and chemist told me off like i should have been...
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> I'm very sorry for all of this...
Matt, I appreciate your post, as well as that of others who have posted about chemist. I hope he is dealing with the 'harsh truth' of being blocked better than I would.-z
Posted by ace on January 20, 2005, at 23:37:31
In reply to Re: blocked for 8 weeks ?Dr. Bob, posted by jujube on January 19, 2005, at 20:11:33
Dr Bob,
In respect, I think the issue of blocking must be modified. Ofcourse this is your site and we all know that. However, I believe a man of Chemist's credentials transcends the need to block him for 8 weeks. Although he did seem somewhat irate, we are all at some time.Is it possible we can have a modified version of the blocking procedure introduced? For instance, asking the person to whom the block pertains to, if he intended to put down the person, or asking the person who was deemed to be put down, if, he/she infact feels this way.
It is known that Chemist has great input into psycho-babble, and it is a shame to see him go for a time. I hope he does not eventually get sick of being blocked, and like CamW, relinquishes all association with this site.
I'm not being aggressive in any way, I just want to see the best for everyone concerned on this informative site.
Thankyou,
Ace
Posted by jerrympls on January 20, 2005, at 23:37:31
In reply to shortsighted blocking » Dr. Bob, posted by Shortelise on January 19, 2005, at 20:27:41
> I have to say that Matt didn't seem offended. Chemist spoke his mind in a straightforward way that I found perfectly acceptable.
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> It's a real pity he has been blocked. Only a few others seem to have the knowledge he has and is so willing to share.
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> ShortEI have to agree with ShortE. Matt asked specifically for Chemist's advice and he got it. Chemist's response did not seem to me to warrant the 8 week block. I think that's too harsh.
Jerry
Posted by jerrympls on January 20, 2005, at 23:37:31
In reply to Re: Blocking Policy, posted by ace on January 20, 2005, at 19:13:28
> Dr Bob,
> In respect, I think the issue of blocking must be modified. Ofcourse this is your site and we all know that. However, I believe a man of Chemist's credentials transcends the need to block him for 8 weeks. Although he did seem somewhat irate, we are all at some time.
>
> Is it possible we can have a modified version of the blocking procedure introduced? For instance, asking the person to whom the block pertains to, if he intended to put down the person, or asking the person who was deemed to be put down, if, he/she infact feels this way.
>
> It is known that Chemist has great input into psycho-babble, and it is a shame to see him go for a time. I hope he does not eventually get sick of being blocked, and like CamW, relinquishes all association with this site.
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> I'm not being aggressive in any way, I just want to see the best for everyone concerned on this informative site.
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> Thankyou,
>
> AceI also agree with Ace- Matt did not indicate any offense taken by Chemist's post. Many forums I visit have a link or button that allows the poster to "report post to administrator." Perhaps implementing something along that line would help with the blocking policy? Just an idea...
Thanks
Jerry
Posted by Dr. Bob on January 21, 2005, at 1:22:54
In reply to Re: blocked for 8 weeks » Dr. Bob, posted by jujube on January 19, 2005, at 20:11:33
> someone offers many excuses.
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> phillipa> a poster ... in need of the harsh truth
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> jujubePlease don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down or jump to conclusions about them. Even if you're trying to support someone else.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
Follow-ups regarding these issues, as well as replies to the above posts, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by Dr. Bob on January 21, 2005, at 1:26:43
In reply to Re: Blocking Policy, posted by jerrympls on January 20, 2005, at 19:32:53
> Many forums I visit have a link or button that allows the poster to "report post to administrator." Perhaps implementing something along that line would help with the blocking policy?
Anyone could click the button, right? I'd like to redirect follow-ups regarding this to an earlier discussion here:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20041109/msgs/425076.html
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by TofuEmmy on January 21, 2005, at 7:00:14
In reply to Re: blocked for 8 weeks, posted by ed_uk on January 19, 2005, at 11:36:30
8 weeks? Oh jeepers, not again Chemist! Do we have to go toilet paper Dr Bob's house yet AGAIN?? Really, it's not good for the environment. Although, he does have a nice little compost pile going from the last TP festival.
Girls and other fans, I guess we need to hop our broom sticks, stop at Walmart for the super size bundles, and head to Chicago. Darn it all, tho. Perhaps we could wait a bit til the weather warms up a bit? It's colder than a witch's....oh sorry...it's cold here.
Chemist - While you have a little down time, perhaps a yoga class? Meditation? Elephant tranquilizer dart to the bumm? Knitting is very popular these days.....around here ladies do it in bars. Really. I digress.
Old Auntie
Posted by TofuEmmy on January 21, 2005, at 8:14:13
In reply to Redirect: button to report post, posted by Dr. Bob on January 21, 2005, at 1:26:43
I don't have the energy for an all out "Reduce the Block" Campaign. I'm too sleepy.
I just read the causal thread and it's pretty obvious that Chemist was involved in a Tough Love endeavor with mcconathy. Even the lad himself agrees. Chemist is trying to cram some knowledge into mmcconathy's head before he heads off to college and is open to an even more dangerous environment. I hope mmcconathy will listen even in Chemist's absense. Chemist was doing a GOOD thing. I believe a reduction should be considered for that alone. Plus Chemist has nice thighs.
emmy
Posted by AuntieMel on January 21, 2005, at 9:55:29
In reply to Bob...., posted by TofuEmmy on January 21, 2005, at 8:14:13
I agree with the devine miss Tofu. Chemist was asked for advice and gave it. It did seem like a tough-love approach, parental even, and something that was possibly needed in this case.
I didn't read it as a put down, ala 'you're a moron, give it up'
I read it more as a tough 'get your pooh together while you still can.'
A gentler approach might not have any effect.
Posted by Tabitha on January 21, 2005, at 10:22:15
In reply to Re: blocked for 8 weeks, posted by TofuEmmy on January 21, 2005, at 7:00:14
I get the impression people are arguing that Dr. Bob should relax the civility standards for a poster who's particularly valuable. That seems like a scary policy to me.
In the block, Dr Bob sited statements describing M's posts as "annoying" and "litter". Don't we all know by now that you can't say things like that here?
Posted by TofuEmmy on January 21, 2005, at 12:00:28
In reply to Re: blocked for 8 weeks, posted by Tabitha on January 21, 2005, at 10:22:15
Egads, I said nothing about Chemist being valuable. Personally, I find him a big pain in the.... insert PBCable comment there. :-) I just don't think in this instance his temper was particularly out of line. Nor does the person he was posting to (participles be danged...or dangled).
It IS an interesting topic tho - that of offering leniency to certain posters. There are people here who sometimes have given 100's of hours of their times (Chemist, Dinah and Larry come to mind) for free, offering us answers to their questions or admin support. I guess I do think they deserve a little something for their assistance here. I see the problem clearly tho - who would and wouldn't "deserve" such leniency. And I know Bob would not be able to officially sanction such a policy. Although it does seem like there oughta be a way to thank those who give so much to this site.
emmy
Posted by AuntieMel on January 21, 2005, at 13:54:17
In reply to Re: blocked for 8 weeks, posted by Tabitha on January 21, 2005, at 10:22:15
I am only saying that these "words" should be put into the context of the entire exchange, not just picked out alone.
I read the whole thread and came up with the impression that, while using 'tough' words, chemist was just trying to get through to him. To help him.
I would hope that if I need a reality check that someone here would give straight it to me instead of worrying about the precise language.
Disclaimer: My comment in no way is to imply that anyone here, their relatives, pets, employers, employees or the garbage man are in need of a reality check.
Posted by jujube on January 21, 2005, at 13:55:23
In reply to Re: please be civil » phillipa » jujube, posted by Dr. Bob on January 21, 2005, at 1:22:54
I'm sorry. It was not my intention to be uncivil, unkind or mean. Mea culpa.
Posted by Glydin on January 21, 2005, at 14:32:27
In reply to Re: blocked for 8 weeks, posted by Tabitha on January 21, 2005, at 10:22:15
> I get the impression people are arguing that Dr. Bob should relax the civility standards for a poster who's particularly valuable. That seems like a scary policy to me.
>
> In the block, Dr Bob sited statements describing M's posts as "annoying" and "litter". Don't we all know by now that you can't say things like that here?
>I agree with you and I did not think the post for which this block was given was supportive. Maybe that was it's intention, but I didn't find that true.
Posted by Gabbix2 on January 21, 2005, at 14:56:23
In reply to Re: Blocking Policy, posted by ace on January 20, 2005, at 19:13:28
> Dr Bob,
> In respect, I think the issue of blocking must be modified. Ofcourse this is your site and we all know that. However, I believe a man of Chemist's credentials transcends the need to block him for 8 weeks. Although he did seem somewhat irate, we are all at some time.
I really like Chemist, it's hard for me to be objective, and though perhaps his intent was to be parental I'm sure he was aware though that using words like 'litter and annoying' were going to get him into hot water.
The idea of relaxing the rules for people with good credentials is so repugnant to me there aren't even words for it. That's the attitude that allows Doctors or CEO's with lots of credentials to get away with tyrannizing people and basically acting like spoiled brats. We can't change that but we can at least not allow it here.
A disproportianate amount of those with a mental illness already live by a second set of rules, and have had to humble themselves while being treated by our credentialed psychiatrists, I can't believe that sort of thinking is being suggested as being appropriate here.
Posted by Broken on January 21, 2005, at 15:26:06
In reply to Re: Blocking Policy » ace, posted by Gabbix2 on January 21, 2005, at 14:56:23
Although I am new here, I did happen to follow several posts that included both Chemist and Matt.
While Chemist is obviously knowledgeable, and perhaps has some credentials I am unaware of because of my relatively new status here, I can hardly see that those two things should provide anyone with a separate set of rules. To be quite honest, not only did I find the behavior itself arrogant and insulting, the mere thought of a subset of rules based on your popularity or credentials defies description based on what this site is supposedly used for.
Perhaps it would be advantageous to everyone if Dr. Bob himself were the one that commented on someone else’s subject and number of posts. If not advantageous, then at the very least, less risky in the being blocked or banned department.
Just a newb's 2c
Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 21, 2005, at 17:37:06
In reply to Re: Blocking Policy, posted by Broken on January 21, 2005, at 15:26:06
Your 2 cents is worth a lot more like 2 million dollars. I like Chemist a LOT I have read many of his helpful posts...he is a bright and helpful man...but 2 set of rules seems elitist.
> Although I am new here, I did happen to follow several posts that included both Chemist and Matt.
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> While Chemist is obviously knowledgeable, and perhaps has some credentials I am unaware of because of my relatively new status here, I can hardly see that those two things should provide anyone with a separate set of rules. To be quite honest, not only did I find the behavior itself arrogant and insulting, the mere thought of a subset of rules based on your popularity or credentials defies description based on what this site is supposedly used for.
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> Perhaps it would be advantageous to everyone if Dr. Bob himself were the one that commented on someone else’s subject and number of posts. If not advantageous, then at the very least, less risky in the being blocked or banned department.
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> Just a newb's 2c
>
Posted by alexandra_k on January 21, 2005, at 20:59:59
In reply to Bob...., posted by TofuEmmy on January 21, 2005, at 8:14:13
>It IS an interesting topic tho - that of offering leniency to certain posters. There are people here who sometimes have given 100's of hours of their times (Chemist, Dinah and Larry come to mind) for free, offering us answers to their questions or admin support. I guess I do think they deserve a little something for their assistance here.
I agree.
(((((Chemist)))))
(((((Dinah)))))
(((((Larry)))))You guys are amazing with all your help and advice.
I think we should be appreciative.
If anything, though, there may be more expected of such people because they may become something of role models.I agree that sometimes tough love type strategy is the only thing that can get through.
But I still think that could and should be phrased in a civil way.
I know that that is much much much harder when you are feeling a bit annoyed. But it is a good strategy to get good at.
Posted by Atticus on January 21, 2005, at 22:26:58
In reply to Re: Blocking Policy, posted by alexandra_k on January 21, 2005, at 20:59:59
What about the larger issue surrounding blocking here: the assessment of penalties? Simply doubling the last block strikes me as an exceptionally simplistic way to dole out penalties. People get blocked for weeks for inadvertantly using the word *ss. It's the eight-week length of this block, and the frequently oversized nature of others, given the "crime," that I think really needs to be reexamined. Dr. Bob, couldn't there be categories of violations, as with the law IRL, that draw proportionate sentencing? It seems to me that a completely unprovoked attack on someone for no apparent reason (and it's happened, recently, with the Herman Munster business) clearly merits a more severe reprimand than advice given with a shot of vinegar, which is essentially Chemist's crime. Yet Herman Munster got blocked for a week, and Chemist is blocked for eight weeks. I don't buy the "give the newbie a chance argument." It seemed to me very apparent that Herman Munster knew exactly what he was doing. It's the inconsistent seriousness of civility violations and their resultant penalties that draws so much ire in you direction, Dr. Bob. I feel it creates the impression that rather than working from a common-sense, impartial system, you're making this up as you go along. Rightly or wrongly, it creates a sense that you are being arbitrary or, at the very least, unimaginative in your rigid sentencing guidelines. How about you arrange offenses -- with our input -- into degrees of seriousness? (Ranging from a Herman Munster-like scorched-earth assault at one extreme to use of a word like *ss at the other.) Please give it some thought. Decisions like the Chemist block only serve to -- in my mind -- make you seem smaller, less authoritative, and more deserving of being challenged. Atticus
Posted by ace on January 21, 2005, at 22:31:07
In reply to Re: Blocking Policy » ace, posted by Gabbix2 on January 21, 2005, at 14:56:23
> > Dr Bob,
> > In respect, I think the issue of blocking must be modified. Ofcourse this is your site and we all know that. However, I believe a man of Chemist's credentials transcends the need to block him for 8 weeks. Although he did seem somewhat irate, we are all at some time.
>
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> The idea of relaxing the rules for people with good credentials is so repugnant to me there aren't even words for it.
I did not mean that at all. I just made a statement that exemplified my personal opinion that blocking people can have negative consequences. If someone does not have Chemist's credentials, so what! They still have a right to ask and help others...If someone who did NOT have Chemist's credentials answered in the same tone which Chemist got blocked for, I would have made it clear, as in the case of Chemist, I personally didn't believe the block was warranted.Ace
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