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Posted by gadchik on January 3, 2013, at 12:27:29
you know, yesterday,when we got into that conversation about the good old days? Anyway, I wanted to point out,it wasnt just about the sex. It was mostly about social interaction with people when you're out and drinking and young. When I said "magical things happen", I was referring to the connecting with people. I just dont trust people the way I did back then. And btw, nothing sexual happened that night with Hall & Oates! I would tell you if it did! I was just a high school senior,and found myself over my head that night, I bolted out into the hallway,dragging my innocence with me!
Posted by Phil on January 3, 2013, at 12:42:34
In reply to Phil, I was rolling back the tapes and..., posted by gadchik on January 3, 2013, at 12:27:29
I know what you're saying. I doubt either Hall or Oates would be good in bed anyway. :(
As far as people I'll quote a thing a friend posted on facebook. I like people like I like my coffee. I don't like coffee.
Posted by gadchik on January 3, 2013, at 12:54:37
In reply to Re: Phil, I was rolling back the tapes and... » gadchik, posted by Phil on January 3, 2013, at 12:42:34
Coffee analogy funny! But didnt you like people back in the day? Remember, being out,drinking and finding people to have intellectual discussions with all night? Or,maybe men dont experience that? Were you guys just out to divide and conquer?!
Posted by Phil on January 3, 2013, at 13:20:04
In reply to Re: Phil, I was rolling back the tapes and... » Phil, posted by gadchik on January 3, 2013, at 12:54:37
Just being honest, we would stay up and talk all night on acid. Sh*t got deep too.
I had a great time for a while. I was always in a band and late hours and fun was always there.
But I was a loner at the same time and needed to be alone to keep going.
When I quit drinking and started meds my life was never the same. Meds helped but for the last 30 years I've probably actually lived for two.
I leave the apt now only when I have absolutely no choice. I rarely get phone calls or even emails. That's my life. I don't regret it because I don't care. I have a lot of friends but no desire to see them and no med or therapy can fix it. Luckily I like being alone. Ted Kazinsky got out more than I did.
I have an older brother who isn't much better and my mother was a bit of a recluse too.
The irony is that I'm good with people and can talk to anyone. But it's not worth it, it wears me out. Sad? When I was in sales for half my life I was good at it. Kind of like Dick Cavett, he could do his show with severe depression. Later he would watch the tape to see how bad it was. He said he couldn't even tell he was depressed. Hopefully the rest of his life was better than mine.
Posted by Phillipa on January 3, 2013, at 15:02:07
In reply to Re: Phil, I was rolling back the tapes and... » gadchik, posted by Phil on January 3, 2013, at 13:20:04
Wasn't til end of first marriage that I partied just alchohol and led the life of a vamp. It was fun!!! Adolescent in 30's was wonderful!!! Phillipa
Posted by gadchik on January 3, 2013, at 18:58:31
In reply to Re: Phil, I was rolling back the tapes and... » Phil, posted by Phillipa on January 3, 2013, at 15:02:07
30s were my decade to raise my child, focus on my marriage, and be responsible. Glad u got to experience some wild times,Phillipa!
Posted by Phillipa on January 3, 2013, at 20:57:08
In reply to Re: Phil, I was rolling back the tapes and... » Phillipa, posted by gadchik on January 3, 2013, at 18:58:31
In my prime I focused on rich men. In Westport Ct. Bumped into Paul Newman once on Main Street Westport. Some of the men I dated I can't reveal the names of. But I did have fun!!! Phillipa
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